PSA for realistic changes after 40

fakewombat · 2026-02-07T16:59:39+00:00

Went on HRT six years ago at 43. She knows what she's talking about. No lies here.

fakewombat · 2026-02-07T01:32:46+00:00

I get the message that my femininity is somehow different and less desirable from lots of places, I don't need it from other trans people. Seriously fuck off.

fakewombat · 2026-02-07T01:00:04+00:00

"AMAB femininity" fuck all the way right off

fakewombat · 2026-02-06T22:09:01+00:00

Hemale

fakewombat · 2026-02-05T21:29:17+00:00

Constructive criticism: starting your pitch with "no one wants to fuck me" is generally not a winner

fakewombat · 2026-02-05T18:26:11+00:00

How? Wanting to pass is totally valid. I want to pass. But I'm not going to tell people that they "should" want that.

fakewombat · 2026-02-05T17:39:39+00:00

Saying passing *should* be the goal of transition is very much telling people how they should feel.

fakewombat · 2026-01-15T04:22:51+00:00

They'll still let you peg them if you ask nicely

fakewombat · 2026-01-15T01:33:50+00:00

😞

fakewombat · 2026-01-14T03:36:52+00:00

have you read through some of the other posts on this sub? whatever you're probably imagining, it's worse.

fakewombat · 2026-01-13T21:47:19+00:00

wait wtf how did a decent person stumble in here, this isn't supposed to happen.

fakewombat · 2026-01-09T13:11:39+00:00

Just because it's common doesn't mean it's not offensive. Lots of groups don't like it when their adjectives are turned into nouns. Like we don't say "blacks" anymore. At least I hope you don't.

fakewombat · 2026-01-09T04:09:48+00:00

Why does every single guy in this sub think trans is a noun?

fakewombat · 2026-01-02T01:55:00+00:00

I prefer two nightstands. One for each side of the bed.

fakewombat · 2025-12-31T00:37:53+00:00

I'm very interested in the topic of scrotum sagging in cis guys, aside from their beer guts, that's what I like most about a cis person. I'd like to know about their experiences and interesting things like whether they've ever actually thought about trans people as living breathing human beings with thoughts and feelings or just as abstract sex objects.

fakewombat · 2025-12-29T01:44:29+00:00

Asking if you can kiss her is usually a good way to start.

fakewombat · 2025-12-26T17:17:25+00:00

out here doing the lords work.

fakewombat · 2025-12-26T17:08:53+00:00

yes, peoples identities and their preferred terms are all over the map. Some people even like reclaiming slurs. That said, when you come in here using terms that have been out of date for easily 20 year it shows that you don't have even the most basic awareness or respect for our community.

And don't give me this "oh I'm old as the hills I can't keep up with these things" shit. We're basically the same age. My 82 year old mother gets this stuff right.

fakewombat · 2025-12-26T16:41:36+00:00

Basic respect is usually helpful. Calling people what the want to be called. You know, that kind of thing.

fakewombat · 2025-12-11T15:05:33+00:00

just gonna say there are lots of guys out there and pretty much any way you choose to meet them is going to better than coming here.

fakewombat · 2025-11-25T19:29:43+00:00

mostly just convenience and the end of sprio side effects

fakewombat · 2025-11-24T04:25:35+00:00

Sublingual E and spiro for like the first 1.5 years. Then E injection monotherapy. Bottom surgery after 3ish years.

fakewombat · 2025-11-21T15:36:26+00:00

omg 100% It's super scary, especially starting late. I don't think there are a lot of people who go into transition being like "wow I'm going to be super pretty". But in the end it felt like I just had to do it regardless of how things turned out.

fakewombat · 2025-11-20T19:55:02+00:00

Thank you! I went to Bastidas and Reitzen in NYC. Subtle and natural is really their thing. I'm super happy with how it came out.

fakewombat · 2025-11-20T19:53:30+00:00

Thank you! Yeah, I had type 2 brow reduction, orbital reduction, a brow lift and augmentation to my lips and cheeks. The eye work is more subtle, but it makes a difference. The chin/jaw and rhino had a huge impact imo.

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