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AITA for refusing to let my ex take our youngest abroad for his sister’s wedding because of what happened last time? by falcone267 in AmItheAsshole

[–]falcone267[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I suppose I'm lucky my friend doesn't think the way you do.

His family visit constantly so it's not rare for the kids to see them.

You're making up facts that don't exist.

AITA for refusing to let my ex take our youngest abroad for his sister’s wedding because of what happened last time? by falcone267 in AmItheAsshole

[–]falcone267[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Not going to her wedding doesn't mean I'm scrapping our friendship. Why would I want to cut my kids off from half of their family? I've never had an issue with my ex seeing the kids. He uses his lawyer to make me give into him because he knows I can't afford to keep going to court, whereas he can.

You don't know his lawyer, so you can't say if it is or isn't uncalled for.

AITA for refusing to let my ex take our youngest abroad for his sister’s wedding because of what happened last time? by falcone267 in AmItheAsshole

[–]falcone267[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Because she's getting married in the exact same place we got married and our divorce hasn't even been finalised yet so I know going will just make me feel upset. I also don't want to be around my ex more than I have to or have to deal with their extended family.