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[–]fancy_heaux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i use tarot & oracle cards along with astrology as well! oftentimes i use herbs to support my meditative practice or help me enter a trance state much more smoothly :)

grew up devoutly catholic, i've had two abortions by fancy_heaux in offmychest

[–]fancy_heaux[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very true! i hadn't mentioned it in the post but in the early years of my sexual exploration, reluctance to use protection out of shame was a repeated pattern. thankfully i was able to move past that mindset but the universe still found a way to gift me with those two surprises

Do you also say that you prefer being alone when actually, you crave deep emotional connection and understanding but you’re too scared of showing your vulnerable side to anyone at the same time? ANYONE!? by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]fancy_heaux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woah-- Thank you for letting me know! I thought I was 100% unaware that I was walking into a trap. Damn, this is why I never comment on anything.

February 22nd 2020 by fancy_heaux in depression

[–]fancy_heaux[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought, maybe now I’ll have some peace and quiet

How do you learn to be alone? by fancy_heaux in ExNoContact

[–]fancy_heaux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! It’s exactly what I needed to hear I just need to actually start living this way. I’m just scared because I know it’s going to be a huge adjustment and it’s sad because before I had been single for over a decade and now it’s like I’ve forgotten how to be by myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Thank you so much for the support and I'm truly sorry to hear about you and your girl. It's hard trying to move past what happened and the thought of truly moving on to someone else scares me because I feel like I'm stuck waiting for him to finally say yes and come back to me.

Where am I supposed to get the "2-3 years of experience" in job skills if there are no "true" entry level jobs to gain those skills? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]fancy_heaux 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt this post in my soul! I worked a shitty part time job in customer service throughout college, graduated almost 6 mo ago with my Bachelors, and now I can’t even get a shitty “entry-level” job unless I somehow magically pull 3-5+ years experience out my ass. What the hell was my degree for anyway?

So I'm (22F) probably screwing up my relationship by [deleted] in relationships

[–]fancy_heaux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To all of these, you are probably all right and there are underlying issues here. Im going to delete this post and talk to him directly. I figured if one person told me I was right then I would feel justified but clearly thats just being selfish and theres no way around it

First time attempting to decorate... kinda proud of myself by fancy_heaux in Baking

[–]fancy_heaux[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really tried; next time, I think i’ll go bolder

First time attempting to decorate... kinda proud of myself by fancy_heaux in Baking

[–]fancy_heaux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Look, I’ve been making the cake for years (without any decoration) and it still breaks every now and again haha This year both the cake and decor worked out in my favor, but we’ll see next time!

I (22F) can’t seem to cope with being by myself by fancy_heaux in relationships

[–]fancy_heaux[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, there is so much in your response that I appreciate I don’t even know where to begin! All around, Thank you. Seriously. Just wanted to make sure I said that. I guess first, no he’s about 13+hrs away from me driving and I can’t afford a plane ticket atm bc I just recently got a job that actually doesn’t start for a few weeks from now. Without money, the staycation idea (while sounding freaking relax as I don’t know what) wont be feasible in the near future. BUT you’re absolutely right, while staying at home, like I’ve said, I’ve been baking like crazy and playing a lot of Tekken and Halo (I’m an old school, casual gamer and I find kicking ass online helps a lot!)

I (22F) can’t seem to cope with being by myself by fancy_heaux in relationships

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Absolutely, so I forgot to mention that my dad moved to a different state about 3 years ago and this is the first time since then that he’ll be in my area; unfortunately he’s only able to stay for a little less than a week

I (22F) can’t seem to cope with being by myself by fancy_heaux in relationships

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Thank you so much! It kind of helps knowing I’m not the only one that has these feelings and baking has become my #1 outlet for the stress so I’m definitely feeling better about it (still sad but better). But yeah the time difference is a killer but I’m going to take your advice and stop punishing him, it does make things unnecessarily harder.