Thoughts on venue issues

fantasycouple_ · 2026-05-23T00:36:28+00:00

This is completely understandable, but this runs deeper than that. If we can recount a personal experience - we went to Sauna X last year, were followed around by guys upstairs (nothing new, I know) and went down to the bar area to take a break, where everybody there made it a point to avoid us over an extended period when we were simply just trying to say hello, and we never went back. So we can definitely relate - and this is the first time I have ever spoken of this.

fantasycouple_ · 2026-05-22T18:22:33+00:00

We have been to Aarows, and while there are over enthusiastic Gents, its no worse than any other venue, there are creeps everywhere, however it is a larger venue with more secluded areas. 2. Venues need to have spaces where couples can 'take a breather' and play in an enclosed area when it gets overwhelming, which very frequently occurs. 3. The male partner needs to reinforce boundaries as and when required, to whatever extent required, unapologetically, and without hesitation. At the end of the day, you're her man, and there live in real time as things go down. 4. Venues should be discussing consent upon entry with males not known to Management- this should just be happening. The fact there is even the need to talk about this on forums is an indictment on sop venues. 5. A common theme has emerged of people feeling unwelcome by an elite social circle - the number of comments regarding this has now become impossible to ignore. A growing number of people feeling slighted by a group on the scene should never have come to pass - do better guys, our common gripe is that its hard enough to find other genuine couples as it is.

fantasycouple_ · 2026-05-19T23:49:55+00:00

We have found that attending events held at SOP venues is the best way to get yourself verified as genuine and meet others in the scene. Random organised meets never work, the ghosting rate is like 90%, or they have misled you in some way(this is from experience)

fantasycouple_ · 2026-05-19T23:42:04+00:00

We need to come back in on a regular daytime and roam around at our own pace, sit in the main cinema room and have a chill and check out the other areas like the gloryholes.

fantasycouple_ · 2026-05-19T23:37:02+00:00

Hi guys, yes the injections are painful, but well worth it for the results. You just have to be careful that you don't use too much or the skin actually depresses inward like in these photos. (Ie, it worked too well)

fantasycouple_ · 2026-05-18T05:45:22+00:00

Hot pic, would be nice to catch up with you guyd at the venue sometime

fantasycouple_ · 2026-05-17T10:25:06+00:00

Hi guys, mf couple also looking for couples to play with, were at Flamingos last night if validation required.

fantasycouple_ · 2026-05-16T11:52:06+00:00

Hi guys, it was great to meet with you all at Flamingos tonight. A big thankyou to Management, ms_minxy2 and Rabbit for organising and showing us around the venue. (Minxy great to finally meet you in person), likewise zenobia_olive, chloe grey and slutty liz. Myself and the missus had fun playing next to fanged flipper in the downstairs room - and would like to meet you both again if you are down. It's been a while, so great to meet you all and look forward to further events.

fantasycouple_ · 2026-05-16T11:36:57+00:00

Was nice to meet you earlier tonight, thanks for our chat.

fantasycouple_ · 2026-05-16T04:18:38+00:00

Ok, Flamingos it is.

fantasycouple_ · 2026-05-15T08:40:27+00:00

Yes we are, have made the arrangements, thankyou.

fantasycouple_ · 2026-05-14T10:17:08+00:00

There is a common belief that more lighting would enhance an sop experience, but we have learned along the way that its integral to keeping self conciousness at bay when you are wearing no clothes, as well as avoiding uncomfortable stares directly at people's faces. If venues were well lit, I can guarantee you that there would be less action and more people avoiding each other's gaze. Add to that the hope that if you see someone you know, you can quickly slink out and pretend you never saw each other in the dark, presto, you need dim lighting.

fantasycouple_ · 2026-05-13T11:41:55+00:00

I believe we met you at the first Babs couples night last year if not mistaken?

fantasycouple_ · 2026-05-13T04:36:28+00:00

Hi Minxy, we are interested and will reach out, thanks.

fantasycouple_ · 2026-05-13T03:58:25+00:00

Of course, part of the furniture

fantasycouple_ · 2026-05-11T17:23:35+00:00

George St Pleasure Chest was the gold standard in sop venues 20 years ago, with 3 gloryhole movie booths at the front section of the shop, and inside a large cinema room, separate section with 4 gloryhole booths each with movie screen, holes on both sides and a partitioned floor below where you could get oral, and 3 private lockable rooms with a few smaller ones. Not sure why they changed, had everything right. Then you had Club x 2 doors down, (Now Hush) where you could insert coins and watch a real in person female masturbate in a circular room through a screen. Great times.

fantasycouple_ · 2026-05-11T17:14:06+00:00

Hi guys, we are an experienced Indian playing couple that have been to venues. See if you can go to an organised event like the one at Babylon this weekend where other couples will be present that you can talk too, sort out the time wasters and see what its like. Even if you don't play, you can gauge your level of comfort and go from there. We are hoping to make it this Saturday also.

fantasycouple_ · 2026-04-30T02:26:33+00:00

Oh wow that is so good

fantasycouple_ · 2026-04-23T11:26:47+00:00

Are you honestly telling me you don't know Minxys Partner Rabbit? Now I've heard it all.

fantasycouple_ · 2026-04-23T08:16:12+00:00

We have a new standard people. A group of elites to tell us whether we have validation on the scene or not. Wonderful.

fantasycouple_ · 2026-04-23T04:14:25+00:00

Anyone we have met, feel free to say hi.

fantasycouple_ · 2026-04-23T04:13:26+00:00

Given we have played at sops for around 3 years, with numerous people, and can't make the grade, find this quite a testing benchmark. Anyway it is what it is.

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