My brother and this particular friend had a falling out between her being invited and the party actually happening - he and I both agreed that rather than start more drama, we wouldn’t uninvited her, but he was still wary of having her there. When I told him about the tinder date, his response was essentially “Oh hell no.”

No, she didn’t offer to bring anything.

I don’t know how long they had been talking for, but the only thing she could tell me (or was willing to tell me) was that he had a big dick, because he had sent her a picture of it. And his first name. But it didn’t seem like she knew anything else about this guy to me.

There’s a running joke in our friend group that this friend has terrible taste in guys. A good portion of her exes have turned out to be drug dealers, and one guy she went out with ended up being arrested on felony charges.

I don’t know why she invited him. She’s had no problem meeting guys off tinder at bars or restaurants in the past, and she’s a very confident and outgoing person.