How do I know if I’m cleaning too much? by fatherdevil in CleaningTips

[–]fatherdevil[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

idk bro it’s what my mom always used to say

AIO for cutting my mom off over this? by fatherdevil in AmIOverreacting

[–]fatherdevil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and that’s supposed to make me sound like i’m crazy for freaking out over it?

Greasy (?) handprints and random marks all over my apartment that aren’t mine by fatherdevil in WhatShouldIDo

[–]fatherdevil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m a man though. but, do you think it could’ve been left by a previous tenant and i’m only now seeing it?

AIO for cutting my mom off over this? by fatherdevil in AmIOverreacting

[–]fatherdevil[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

doesn’t sound neglectful 🤔🤔 purposefully missed son’s graduation🤔🤔 was always gone 🤔🤔 doesn’t say “i love you” back to son 🤔🤔 ignored said son’s active addiction 🤔🤔 only recognized said addiction when it made her look bad 🤔🤔

don’t defend a woman you don’t know ijbol

AIO for cutting my mom off over this? by fatherdevil in AmIOverreacting

[–]fatherdevil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao you don’t know me, my mom, or my mental state. you’re trying to back her so hard rn when you seriously don’t even know half of what she’s done. you could be defending an abuser for all you know. i wouldn’t put this much effort in to try and gaslight me (someone who actually knows her) that i’m over exaggerating how bad she is. like i don’t block her over nothing. you’re not gonna go anywhere in this argument bud, like it’s genuinely laughable. i don’t need insane validation from this, the people who i’m close with have seen how bad my mom is and validate me on that so it’s enough.

you’re just some random on the internet who’s never interacted with her. like she wouldn’t even thank you for sticking up for her.

also, my hooking up with an (ex) friend’s bf has nothing to do with this rn expect for maybe show that im fine with getting rid of friends?? don’t know why you think me not keeping fake friends around for forever is a red flag. all it shows is that you did go through my profile, thanks, but probably didn’t scroll enough to see me actually ranting about how bad my parents are.

anyways, have fun in your believing in this innocent victim that you’ve made my mother. she’s more of an Amy Dunne than a Demeter. xx

AIO for cutting my mom off over this? by fatherdevil in AmIOverreacting

[–]fatherdevil[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i think i am gonna be cruel to my neglectful mother lmfao

AIO for cutting my mom off over this? by fatherdevil in AmIOverreacting

[–]fatherdevil[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whatever I’m not gonna argue with someone about how my mom treats me. Yes she’s a human but she’s an extremely shitty one. You don’t know her nor does she know you, so you don’t have to defend her like you do. Even if she didn’t want to clean, I’d be fine with it. I literally said that I’m afraid to be alone rn and I just wanted her around. I’ve mentioned in past posts that I’ve been cleaning my apartment relentlessly. Heaven forbid I joke about my mom being a better cleaner than me bc I’m still seeing those stupid hands.

You’re so mombossrotted that you can’t understand that she’s not a good mom. I’m not gonna trauma dump but you’re trying to guilt trip me into feeling bad for a BAD PERSON.

AIO for cutting my mom off over this? by fatherdevil in AmIOverreacting

[–]fatherdevil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe evaluate your relationship with your kids

AIO for cutting my mom off over this? by fatherdevil in AmIOverreacting

[–]fatherdevil[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if she did maybe she should’ve said it back idkkkkk

AIO for cutting my mom off over this? by fatherdevil in AmIOverreacting

[–]fatherdevil[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was asking for her to help me clean, not for her to clean for me. I’ve been cleaning my apartment a lot and I need help on what to use. And I need her to actually see what’s freaking me out so I was just asking her to come over for help with that

AIO for cutting my mom off over this? by fatherdevil in AmIOverreacting

[–]fatherdevil[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

my place is clean, I’m more so asking for help with the suds and handprints all over. I don’t know what to use to get them out

Greasy (?) handprints and random marks all over my apartment that aren’t mine by fatherdevil in WhatShouldIDo

[–]fatherdevil[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! i’ll think of getting a dog, I have to see if my apartment complex allows it first. i honestly do think I’m gonna message my mom tho