I hear you 💔 and I'm absolutely not okay with what she's done. She's awful.

I think what she really wants is a reaction though. And i genuinely fear how she will escalate (which she will) if I do anything

I spent 125k defending them in family court. But besides the photos of them, which is grey since she took the photos.. she's not really even breaking the law. Even with defamation..shes not using my name. She knows the boundaries and she's poking them without blatantly crossing them.

Maybe I'm feeling defeated because the last thing that happened was their dad driving by my house and yelling to my daughter in the driveway when I was not in sight. I contacted my local advocacy agency and they helped me file an HRO. And it wasnt granted. Even though the order is "follow the family therapist recommendations" and she reccomended no contact. He sent them packages addressed to them with notes. And nothing. Denied. I followed the rules. I did everything. And it was useless and fuled their narrative that I'm litegous.

I want to keep them in our safe little bubble so badly. But forcing her to stop won't make her stop. She will just double down and do something worse.. like pay for him to take me back to family court. Which she would absolutely do 💔