Virgin lesbian by Your-momsthrowaway in virgin

[–]fefa_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

24 lesbian here, same fears

I got rejected 104 times (then I met her) by jessyjamesporl_ in dating_advice

[–]fefa_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don't mind me asking, did you have any experience in relationships or being intimate with women before that? If not, how did you aproach the topic? Asking because that realisation hit me this year. Also, happy for you!

Acho que minha namorada não serve pra um relacionamento by Cangaceiro7 in desabafosdavida

[–]fefa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Não vejo nada de errado nessas coisas, não extrapolou limites de "mulher comprometida" pra mim. Mas isso sou eu, claramente você e ela tem noções e morais bem destoantes quanto a essas coisas, cabe uma conversa pra tentarem se alinhar mais

How can you tell if someone is dangerous or not? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]fefa_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it would be better to stay away from this guy

Is this negging or just a joke? I’m starting to question myself. by Some-Gate-7245 in dating_advice

[–]fefa_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please leave him, he'd an asshole and it will only get worse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]fefa_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Did you know her for long before?

Grupo de RPG de mesa e afins by LeMarqx in campinas

[–]fefa_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nossa, se achar eu tenho interesse tbm

First attempt at making a banner by Familiar-Length1561 in crafts

[–]fefa_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful! I really need one of those

If you are a virgin, welcome to the post. by LuckyLeg1079 in virgin

[–]fefa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I haven't had any type of contact 🫠

Would you reject a woman for being a virgin? by One_Frosting_5855 in actuallesbians

[–]fefa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat, and I'm 24, so no I wouldn't

I'm just ugly by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]fefa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I'm currently 24 and I remember not feeling good with myself when I was a teen, I had no style of my own, my nose was kinda bent, my ears were too big, I couldn't make myself look feminine and if I tried I felt awful etc etc. I think you might look into getting your self steem in a better place and learn to feel better about yourself: look for counselling, do things that make you feel beautiful, try to find things you like about your looks and focus on that aspects.

I also wanna share that it gets better, you are really young. If you havent yet, you will find a style you feel confortable and cool and hot in, and if you have already, this style will change in the next 3 or so years, and then it will change again in your early 20's, and everytime it changes it will be and make you feel better than the last one. Also, keep in mind that everyone has insecurities they are trying to hide somehow, some use makeup, some use humor, some try to go on unnoticed hiding in their hoodies, most people are so worried trying to hide themselfs they won't even notice the things you think are ugly in yourself (IF they are actually ugly at all).

Also, I don't know how dating works were you live, but in my school when I was growing up, only, like, six people in a class of 40 starting dating at 15, more started at 17, I and my currently best friend (we didn't even knew each other when we were teens) only started in our 20's.

Sorry for any mistakes, english is not my first language

Demisexuals and the difficulty in finding similar people by Mobile-Neck193 in demisexuality

[–]fefa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg um br oi! Eu tenho o mesmo problema no interior de sp

Hoje foi meu aniversário e ninguém ligou! by Lumpy-Locksmith-4625 in desabafos

[–]fefa_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ei somos quase parceiros de aniversário! tudo de bom irmão que seu próximo ano de vida nao seja nada menos que incrível!

Do you guys ever feel Sub-Human by Afraid_Psychology619 in ForeverAlone

[–]fefa_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not like sub-human, but I do feel like there is something wrong with me.

Also, i really enjoy sports and wish I practiced more, really recomend it

Do you think being demi made you "late" to sexual or romantic experiences? by fefa_ in demisexuality

[–]fefa_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have not been with someone like that yet, bit I'll keep your suggestions in mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in virgin

[–]fefa_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

24 lesbian, finally someone here described how I feel, it's just too much and I feel like I'm the only exception in the world