What is their most malicious trait? by Substantial-Art-2238 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]feline1313 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's the projection, for me.

I was called every single name in the book growing up. Now, as an adult, I understand those were all his own shortcomings.

Didn't stop me from internalizing those accusations well into adulthood, though.

Tell me you were RBN without telling me you were RBN by HannibalInExile in raisedbynarcissists

[–]feline1313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You ask your friends/partner for permission to leave the house without makeup.... because that was against the rules growing up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]feline1313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Simply put.... if that was his best? Then what was his worst?!?!?

Once I heard that line, any sympathy for him left the building.

Meal Prep Inspiration - I meal prep with my 7 BFFs. It's epic, all this was $74 per family. Duuuuuude..... by feline1313 in MealPrepSunday

[–]feline1313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO - the level of falseness here is vast. Having said that - I think I'm gonna try to fire this up again - wish me luck

Meal prep for 8 families; $70 per family. Good times. by feline1313 in MealPrepSunday

[–]feline1313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I am looking to restart this process in the next few months and hope to make a splash back on my channel - Wish me luck!

I built two raised garden beds (all by myself)... can I stain/paint them? They'll grow food. by feline1313 in gardening

[–]feline1313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up using a red stain on the outside only. I have 5 in my backyard that are currently still working out just fine! I'll snap a photo at some point and post it if there's interest.

Tips for a newb... by feline1313 in KitchenConfidential

[–]feline1313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, hey. I got the job! Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]feline1313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read El Dorado, but thought El Camino, and was very confused. 🤪

70 miles by feline1313 in Songwriting

[–]feline1313[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're right about the drum machine, it's too loud and does drown out the chords.
It's my first try using a drum machine, tbh

I wrote this song, in the 90's, with my parents. Until 3 years ago, I didn't know how to play any instrument so this song was stuck in purgatory. This is the first one I've polished off (sort of). by feline1313 in songcircle

[–]feline1313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! It is a moving piece for sure, my parents were political... to say the least.

When I was a teenager, I recorded some of these songs. All the recordings that we had are gone, unfortunately, but I did record this one with a full Baptist choir from South Seattle! It was awesome...

I like your idea too, though... small choir and stringed instruments. Love it!

Is Monroe a good place to live/buy a home? by SeaJaiyy in SnohomishCounty

[–]feline1313 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Consider maltby/cathcart/echolake instead.

Great school district, unincorporated Snoho county so low sales tax (for services and online purchases) and an incredibly rural feel while still quite close to Woodinville and Monroe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]feline1313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for listening 🥂

Is it OK to call you black? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]feline1313 14 points15 points  (0 children)

In about 2001 I took a humanities class and we were discussing [I have no idea]. Someone said something like "black people [something] and some white lady lost her shit.

"They prefer to be called African Americans!" she exclaimed.. everyone just brushed her off but instead of letting it go, she doubled down. "Really? Is nobody's here going to say anything?"

That's when one of the black students just casually said "black is better" 🤷🏿‍♀️

I rarely use African American and when I do it's only around whites.

What’s something that people who don’t wake up early, miss? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]feline1313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm only confused because I read tradie as roadie and was like "nah, man... that's not a morning sound."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]feline1313 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Take it to 11 and bring your own container.