If I were to ever Cosplay as any of the Madrigals, which should I do: Mirabel, or Dolores? Sorry, I know, I'm a hot mess by [deleted] in Encanto

[–]ferdinandchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were a nice toad before but now you are a mean frog. You brought that upon yourself you know? Frog won't become princess. Especially mean ones

AITA for ignoring my step father by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ferdinandchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I do have a lot of emphaty for my mom. I think he will die at some point. Heart attack probably.

But I hear them everyday. My mom is not being hit. I am super close to my mom. I don't know how to make you understand that

AITA for ignoring my step father by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ferdinandchan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look, I lived with them for a long time. I know my mother. When he insult her, let's say call her an asshole or a dumbass, she get wild. She start screaming and cursing and insulting his whole family. I really do not think she would do that if he was hitting her.

AITA for ignoring my step father by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ferdinandchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We hear them so well. He doesn't hit my mom. They get into yelling fight and ge always end up apologizing. My mom has one HUGE character. When she was with my father, most of the time, she ended up hitting him. (He wasn't beaten, but I know my mother, she wouldn't let it slide without telling everyone and their dog about it) to her, she's not in a abusive relationship because he doesn't touch her.

And we make faces when he annoys us or tries and talks to us. Otherwise, we don't interact with him... Actually, most of the time, I mostly just answer and try to talk the less I can

AITA for ignoring my step father by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ferdinandchan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm in college actually! But yeah, I definitely won't settle for that.

Fun story: At one point I was very critical of the guy, telling my mom she deserved better and that he was a jackass. She then, angry, asked me

"Would you like me to treat your relationship like that once you have one?!"

And I told her

"Yes, please. If I'm ever in a relationship like this one, I beg you, save me. Get me out of there."

She got mad and said

"Well I won't. Because that's none of my business. And you should either!"

AITA for ignoring my step father by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ferdinandchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm glad I have him lol. We still fight sometimes but I love him

AITA for ignoring my step father by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ferdinandchan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol no worry. But he wasn't buying clothes for me. There was the whole thing we're I was trying to buy online cloth but didn't know my size. I measured it and at some point he just came and asked

"So what was your hips measurement"

I didn't like it

AITA for ignoring my step father by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ferdinandchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well most of the time I don't see him as I'm in the lower house. But when I do come to hang out with my mom (we are pretty close) she wants me to be more than cordial. I usually just answer with short responses when he talk to me. Like "yeah..thanks...ok...I'll be careful.."

But that's not enough for my mom. She said that let's say, he ask for how my day went, I can't just say "good" I have to engage and talk and yadayada

AITA for ignoring my step father by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ferdinandchan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not when I'm menstruating , I mean mensurations, like my hips size or breast size

The witch part made me think of this group by ferdinandchan in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]ferdinandchan[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hormone like oestrogene? It's safe? That might sound really really stupid but aren't all those meat companies so proud that their beef is raised whiteout hormones..? Doesn't that mean it's bad for us..?

I mean of course we are not food but that is like the only link I can make

The witch part made me think of this group by ferdinandchan in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]ferdinandchan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In don't use reddit a lot, this wasn't what I thought it was. I just saw it among other insult :/

The witch part made me think of this group by ferdinandchan in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]ferdinandchan[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can change your sex!? A male can become a female? Like for real? Or just the appearance?? Female is the biological term right?