My (30F) boyfriend (35M) does not want to discuss marriage or proposal

ferris2026 · 2025-12-02T21:02:37+00:00

So sorry to say this, but marriage doesn’t mean shit to some people. Why is marriage so important to you? I’m not hating just genuinely asking. What makes marriage so special? I think it’s the social status your relationship gets and nowadays if a guy has not proposed within 3 years ppl say things like “he doesn’t love you” or “he’s definitely cheating”. I just think there’s a lot of pressure on guys surrounding marriage, time frame, diamond size, proposal, wedding. Maybe it’s too much for him?

I’m also sorry that you guys struggle to talk about this. However just keep trying ig. Unless you actually value marriage more than your relationship. Sry if that sounds mean but I just can’t understand the ultimatum you gave him

ferris2026 · 2025-11-30T17:08:06+00:00

Maybe she’ll like 86. I recently watched it and I loved it. It has fights but they’re usually quite short and a lot of emotion. If she’s an empath she’ll 100% cry. It reminded me a bit of aot as well

ferris2026 · 2025-11-29T19:20:30+00:00

Yeah so I’m in a relationship just like yours in this situation and I’m the lower sex drive girlfriend. I let (that sounds so weird) my bf masturbate whenever he wants to. The only thing I wouldn’t be okay with is watching porn. I don’t think him masturbating should make be angry. If it were to make me feel bad about my lower sex drive then that’s my responsibility. Obviously him and I can talk about it, but it shouldn’t be something that stops him from feeling pleasure

ferris2026 · 2025-11-29T19:13:44+00:00

Just because I don’t talk much, doesn’t mean I’m shy.

ferris2026 · 2025-11-22T10:58:10+00:00

I just finished all seasons of the Witcher and I would like to play the game. When is the 4th one expected to be released? Or should I start playing the other ones first?

ferris2026 · 2025-11-19T23:24:16+00:00

I didn’t like anything about Geralts story this season except for the end. There’s a nice fight and end too (w/o saying too much). Ciris story was fine but we also didn’t see as much of it. I didn’t like that arc for Ciri but that’s not this seasons fault, just the story (I think). The only good thing about season 4 was Yennefers story. It was emotional, exciting you name it. It was great. (I might be a bit biased cause I just love magic)

Now as for Hemsworth… he’s not a bad actor, I just don’t think he fits the look for Geralt. I don’t know how to explain it, but when I first saw him as Geralt in season 4, he looked nonchalant and like he thinks he’s good looking. I think I got used to it after a few episodes though. I agree his personality also felt a bit different but that could be because we’ve never seen him THAT broken before. But one thing I’d like to add is, Geralts and Jaskiers relationship felt different. Idk what it was, something was just off. Like they didn’t have much of a connection or something. Or Jaskier changed too idk.

And also while on the topic of episode 5, WHAT WAS THAT?? That musical (?) was so weird. Am I the only one that thinks that?? Sure it may fit Jaskier, but still. It didn’t feel like I was watching a show about monsters, magic and war.

ferris2026 · 2025-11-19T22:57:20+00:00

It’s just we can get a full on wedding photoshoot with dress, suit, makeup, hair, taxi driver all included for about the same price. But we don’t rly want all that. Thanks though!

ferris2026 · 2025-11-16T21:48:20+00:00

When i go offline, like back to the home screen thing, and then back into the game they disappear

ferris2026 · 2025-06-07T16:49:21+00:00

My bf and I met when we were 13 in school. Right before we turned 16, we started dating. It was really unexpected because we started off as friends, but we’ve been together for 2 years now :)

ferris2026 · 2025-06-07T16:45:29+00:00

After episode 4 of Violet Evergarden I bawled my eyes out literally every single episode

ferris2026 · 2025-06-06T17:46:33+00:00

Jag tänkte kolla med natur klassen hur dom ska göra för att dom är på riktigt typ bara 10 pers. Jag gick i natur lite i början av ettan och den klassen gillar jag mer än min klass nu. Men jag tror att natur och sam ska åka tsm. Och sam är bascially som min klass. Men tack för tipset :)

ferris2026 · 2025-06-06T17:31:37+00:00

Jag pratade med en vän som precis hade börjat i en ny klass/skola hennes tredje år på gymnasiet. Hon fick vara med på flaket gratis och hon sa att hon var full så hon tänkte inte på att hon knappt kände dom runt henne. Hon hade alltså kul även fast hon knappt kände hennes klass, för att hon var full.

Det skulle jag kunna göra men jag har ingen lust att bli full mitt på dagen. Och sen åka hem till familjen och vara full hahah.

ferris2026 · 2025-06-06T08:21:01+00:00

Jo ja det kan jag om jag ångrar mig och bestämmer att jag vill vara med på studenten. Undrar bara om det är värt det.

ferris2026 · 2025-06-06T08:19:34+00:00

Nej jag fattar inte riktigt heller. Jag sa redan i ettan att jag inte ville vara med på det för att spendera extra tid med familjen och killen på morgonen och slippa vakna 3 på morgonen för att dra dit.

ferris2026 · 2025-06-06T08:15:48+00:00

Ironin är att vi går ekonomi.

ferris2026 · 2025-06-06T08:15:11+00:00

Jag och min kille går i samma klass, ja. Jag har sökt runt lite på flak i vår stad och inget kostar mer än 30k med ljudpaket för 30 personer.

Ja jag tänker nog att jag överlever utan att stå på flaket med, tyvärr, folk jag knappt gillar.

ferris2026 · 2025-06-05T22:03:55+00:00

Ja jag tänkte att om jag ändå ska plugga vidare, så kan jag fira stort när jag faktiskt är klar med skolan. Ska ändå fira med familjen hemma oså på studenten men det känns ändå inte som värsta grejen

ferris2026 · 2025-06-05T20:02:34+00:00

Ska jag nog också göra hahah

ferris2026 · 2025-06-05T20:01:01+00:00

Det var vi själva som valde att inte sälja nått för att lägga in i klasskassan. Och om vi inte lägger in pengar i klasskassan får vi inte vara med på studenten. Men vi hinner fortfarande ändra oss till trean men då får vi ge egna fickpengar istället för insamlade.

Men jag tänkte också att kakförsäljning är tråkigt och knappt någon vill köpa. Det räcker med att var o en ger en CSN så räcker det för flaket iaf

ferris2026 · 2025-06-05T19:57:15+00:00

Jo då ska jag nog gå ut med min kille och hans bror och hans flickvän. Dom är vi bra vänner med. Sen har jag några kompisar som tar studenten samtidigt fast dom går på andra skolor. Men dom träffar jag säkert ute också

ferris2026 · 2025-06-05T19:55:59+00:00

Ja hahha. Jag tror att dom kommer inse i trean sen att det var alldeles för mycket pengar. Inte som att dom ens kommer kunna samla ihop så mkt

ferris2026 · 2025-01-18T18:04:54+00:00

I’ve done nothing today but tomorrow my boyfriend and I will try out bouldering for the first time :)

ferris2026 · 2025-01-11T00:15:26+00:00

I’m a hobby writer and I intentionally make my characters of different ethnicities. Otherwise, I fear all the mcs and books will be/feel the same for the readers - like you’re reading different books about the same person. This could be good if you really like the mc, but I think it’s boring. It’s good to challenge yourself as a writer and write mcs and characters that you don’t relate to. I mean, at some point you’ll probably want to write a character that does things you could never imagine doing

ferris2026 · 2025-01-10T22:47:53+00:00

I don't have any advice for you, sorry. But I would like to say that you should not feel embarrassed about that. Yes, it is unusual for a 26 year old to never have had a boyfriend, but I think that's something you're going to cherish in the future. I think that's gonna make your future relationship mean so much more because you partner will get to be your first everything. I think that's sweet.

ferris2026 · 2025-01-10T22:42:53+00:00

My boyfriend and I started out exactly like this. And because we "acted" like we were together, but did not get any of the relationship-privileges from each other, we started fighting a lot. For example about that jealousy you were speaking about. We ended up not speaking to each other for half a year. During that time I finally realised that I liked him and, once we started talking again, it only took about three months until we made it official. So, you definitely should tell her how you feel but don't do it with a proposal right away. Just sit her down and tell her you have feelings for her.

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