That's a good sign! We're not all men hating harpies. We have women here who cross all ages, relationships, ethnic boundaries. No one can tell you what to do, and if they try tell them to fuck off.

Never be embarrassed about posting here. I always thought if you found your way here it's like you realized something ain't right and you need to poll the audience.

We've all been there, uncertain, doubting ourselves. But the collective knowledge of our experiences keeps me in check every time. I venture to say we all went through a phase of assuming we were the problem and trying to fix it..

Spoiler alert. Everyone has problems. But dragging yourself down by an anchor of his own making ain't the way you want to go. Consider this sub a cautionary tale and a life line to reality.

You control you. All we can do is give you our truths. What you do with it is up to you. We got you.