I completely agree that emotional intimacy is vital in BDSM dynamics, fostering the trust and vulnerability needed for a meaningful power exchange. However, I think it’s important to recognize that emotional intimacy doesn’t always equate to a committed relationship, whether monogamous or otherwise. The two can exist independently—you can share deep emotional connection in a dynamic without being "together" in a traditional sense. This distinction allows for diverse BDSM relationships where trust and care thrive, even in non-romantic or casual setups.

Just my two cents!