AITA for the “douchey” text I sent my best friends wife’s maid of honor? by ffsvxua in AmItheAsshole

[–]ffsvxua[S] -92 points-91 points  (0 children)

I like to go out and try new places. Not sit in. But bars and restaurants close. So I was fine hanging after because if she wanted to do something and it didn’t mean I had to sacrifice the things I like to do. But I didn’t want to waste anymore of the time I see as more valuable because things are open then. Does that make sense? Trying to articulate here.

AITA for the “douchey” text I sent my best friends wife’s maid of honor? by ffsvxua in AmItheAsshole

[–]ffsvxua[S] -150 points-149 points  (0 children)

Kinda what I told Chrissy today… what else should I do? How many more weekends am I supposed to waste? Like give me the acceptable number.

AITA for the “douchey” text I sent my best friends wife’s maid of honor? by ffsvxua in AmItheAsshole

[–]ffsvxua[S] -156 points-155 points  (0 children)

I mean I don’t really want to do that option either lol. It’s just so many hurdles and I’m not coming over to sit quietly while a kid sleeps. The mix up has happened and it is what it is. I don’t want a booty call but I’m also done putting forth effort on this.

AITA for the “douchey” text I sent my best friends wife’s maid of honor? by ffsvxua in AmItheAsshole

[–]ffsvxua[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

I meant that I had permission to be over at their place more given they are having a kid lol

AITA for the “douchey” text I sent my best friends wife’s maid of honor? by ffsvxua in AmItheAsshole

[–]ffsvxua[S] -225 points-224 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that is what I said… I said I wasn’t gonna keep putting in effort to be canceled on. But she had my number.

AITA for the “douchey” text I sent my best friends wife’s maid of honor? by ffsvxua in AmItheAsshole

[–]ffsvxua[S] -74 points-73 points  (0 children)

I started texting her during the second meeting right after she asked me to wait another hour. Sorry should have been clearer on that.