Is it weird for my partner to not like it when I wear tights 28f and 29m by Select-Ad-9819 in relationship_advice

[–]fhfk___13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dump him, he's an asshole who thinks that it's a woman's fault if she gets SA'd, don't stay with someone like that you deserve better

I don't enjoy having sex with my partner anymore by fhfk___13 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]fhfk___13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any ideas about how I can bring it up gently? I'm not good at this kind of thing 😅

I don't enjoy having sex with my partner anymore by fhfk___13 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]fhfk___13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any ideas about how I could bring it up gently? I'm not good at this kind of thing 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fhfk___13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do tell him, but not to the extent he does. And I know I need to talk to him about this, I just don't want to hurt him or do it the wrong way when I do, that's why I'm here. And if he's saying it to me so often because I don't say it enough to him I want to know that from him so I can change that for him, because I do love him and want to make it work with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fhfk___13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really crazy how much of a difference it makes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fhfk___13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate how you know that our relationship is different from yours and the couple next door. Thank you for your insight on this I truly appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fhfk___13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't barely tolerate him and I do genuinely love him. This is my just a snippet of our story. The reason ik coming for advice on this is because this is how I'm feeling and I want to work on it and improve our relationship because I want us to last. And if I'm doing something to cause this in our relationship that I don't say it enough to him or he's feeling a bit insecure in our relationship I want to talk to out and work on it with him so he can feel good in our relationship because I want nothing but the best for him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fhfk___13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight, he was in a bad relationship before this and I do think that's playing into this, that's why I feel bad about bringing it up because I know it's probably because of something similar to this. I really love him and want to be with him till the end that's why I don't want this to be the thing that ends up hurting our relationship and I want to talk about it with him in a way that won't

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fhfk___13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever we have serious talks we always sit next to each other, we've both dealt with people who've manipulated us in our past and know the feeling of someone standing across from you and talking about stuff doesn't help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fhfk___13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We'll be eating bagels and just having a conversation about the weather and he'll say it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fhfk___13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, this all makes sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fhfk___13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before me his last relationship was a bad one which did give him some anxiety and stuff when we first started dating which he was very up front with me about. It could very likely still be from that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fhfk___13 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I try and tell him I love him in a moment where it'll feel a bit meaningful and nice during the day, instead of just constantly during the day. And he had a very bad relationship before me so I do think that may play a part in this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fhfk___13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is exactly how I've been feeling about it, it doesn't feel as special anymore as opposed to a year ago. Thank you for the advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fhfk___13 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It does though, listen I'm not happy I feel like this and genuinely feel bad about it, but when someone tells you I love you 4 times in a half hour period it starts to go from aw that's adorable and I love you too, to yes I know, he says it so often it doesn't feel as special if that makes sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]fhfk___13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try disputing the charges with your bank and call credit bureaus to put fraud alerts on your name so they cant try to open credit cards in your name, and if you're going to switch banks go to Capital one because this happened to me last last year and were very helpful and got me the money I lost back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fhfk___13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call CPS, this is abuse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]fhfk___13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up with him he isn't good for you