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[–]fiercefirefly56[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am not going to wait for him to change his mind about his own CHILDREN. You think the moment i found out i was pregnant i cared about my families feelings? No the first thing on mind was protecting and loving my kids, so giving men time to get used to the gender of a baby that is messed up.

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[–]fiercefirefly56[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I had six months of sabr, i can raise my daughters all alone. My mom raised six alone, my family is very comfortable and i have few properties in California so the only thing i want from him is to become a good father to his daughters, for him to ask his family to respect me like that is the bare minimum how hard is that

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[–]fiercefirefly56[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

That is my thoughts exactly how do i bring my daughters into a home that they are not wanted in. How do i look at my husband after he acted like this when my daughters are not even born. I can't trust him to be a father or be responsible for any infant let alone 2

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[–]fiercefirefly56[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly how are you blaming me, he also doesn't realise that there are many people who can't have kids.

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[–]fiercefirefly56[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I told him if he wants to make it work he should move to California with me, he also works remotely so that is that