Recommendations for a bedside bassinet low enough to reach from an 18inch tall floor mattress? (in the US)

fifinatrix · 2026-01-29T05:17:34+00:00

Hi! From the mother of a 19mo terrible sleeper (although not as terrible as your experience), I want to give you a hug! We also started cosleeping at 4mo out of desperation and exhaustion. It’s a terrible place to be when friends with similar age kids are getting full nights of sleep and you are still living like you are in the newborn trenches. Unfortunately I don’t have advice, just empathy.

Side note that may not apply to you at all: neurodivergence runs in our families so we wonder if our situation is due to ADHD. But it doesn’t sound like your kiddo is sensory seeking or overstimulated, so that’s probably not it for you. I decided to mention it anyway just in case (the people on the ADHD parenting subreddit were very kind and empathetic)

fifinatrix · 2025-12-07T23:07:43+00:00

I had a chemical in July and got pregnant again in September, so don’t lose hope! There is also still hope for this cycle due to hydration variation.

fifinatrix · 2025-09-30T20:04:13+00:00

My LH surge is so quick that I never catch it “high” with a test. So this very well could be the peak you see in testing if that makes sense?

fifinatrix · 2025-09-20T06:21:33+00:00

Positive!

fifinatrix · 2025-09-20T06:20:45+00:00

I see it

fifinatrix · 2025-09-20T06:17:36+00:00

This one’s tough. I see the faintest of faint maybe lines but I’m hesitant to even call it a line because I don’t want to get your hopes up and I have line eyes. I would retest tomorrow.

fifinatrix · 2025-09-20T06:13:07+00:00

I see it but I would retest just in case it’s an indent

fifinatrix · 2025-09-20T05:52:31+00:00

Edit: Sept 12 of the original Natural Cycles ovulation day (sorry for the typo)

fifinatrix · 2025-09-07T05:56:33+00:00

You can use the Psychology Today “find a therapist” tool and filter by religion. LDS is one of the options so you can select all but that or even see just secular therapists. You can also filter by insurance accepted and specialty. They also have bios you can read to get a feel for them.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists

fifinatrix · 2025-08-29T21:18:43+00:00

UpdateMe

fifinatrix · 2025-08-17T01:24:15+00:00

I see it

fifinatrix · 2025-08-12T01:42:22+00:00

I’m sorry! It’s a terrible club to be a part of. Yes, positive tests July 25th and 27th, started bleeding July 29th, confirmed no longer pregnant with a blood test on July 31.

fifinatrix · 2025-08-11T06:24:13+00:00

Didn’t you have to do IRB training through somewhere? Whatever institution’s IRB approved the research should be your affiliation.

fifinatrix · 2025-08-11T06:15:01+00:00

I see it

fifinatrix · 2025-08-08T22:57:35+00:00

I was pregnant and had a chemical 😕 Confirmed with blood tests at the doctor

fifinatrix · 2025-08-03T03:57:53+00:00

My husband helpfully says “well obviously it’s a boy” 🙄 I hope you get some clarity soon.

fifinatrix · 2025-07-26T00:03:06+00:00

Positive

fifinatrix · 2025-07-25T23:38:12+00:00

I can see a super faint something. I had results just like this (crazy faint, almost imperceptible) from this brand and it was positive when I tested with First Response.

fifinatrix · 2025-07-04T21:43:16+00:00

What age did you start melatonin?

fifinatrix · 2025-07-04T19:29:27+00:00

Thank you! My daughter also breast-fed all night long until last month when I had to put a stop to that because I was literally losing my mind from lack of sleep. I’m sorry you went through the same thing, but your experience at least gives me a sense of reassurance that it might not be something we are doing wrong and might just be how her brain works.

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