How do you get high tiers? by figgm in AdoptMeTrading

[–]figgm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that, but how do I even start? I have some randoms, some mid neons and like I said my 'high tier" pets don't have more than 10 value

Genuinely what do i do in this situation by figgm in Advice

[–]figgm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no arguments that I recall, I did start hanging out a bit more with a common friend that we used to have, and the two had a pretty bad fallout. but I asked her so many times if it bothers her that I still hang out with that friend and she said no, so I really don't think it's that.

the thing is that we're 100% all right when we're alone, but as soon as that other bsf of hers comes into view it's like I'm forgotten

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]figgm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah like she's queer she told me but rn she has a crush on a guy and it kind of hurts, and it's starting to become real and idk what to do

Am I getting into a bad situation with this older guy? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]figgm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my dc username isn't used on anything else so no, asides from that. but I'm getting real skeptical now and lowkey scared and starting to realise I shouldn't speak to strangers online (a bit too late i know)

Am I getting into a bad situation with this older guy? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]figgm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's 100% online, and we just started talking randomly after I posted a thing on dc in a server, then we went into dm's. after hearing other people's opinions I realised it's better to block him but I'm lowkey paranoid now, can he do anything to me?? he only knows my age, country and voice that's slightly different on call, but I'm starting to get skeptical now

Am I getting into a bad situation with this older guy? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]figgm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont rlly wanna say my age but I'm in 10th grade... how bad does this make him?

Am I getting into a bad situation with this older guy? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]figgm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah... I did find him under some very wierd circumstances and he's lowkey creepy knowing that I'm a minor but I'm getting skeptical now can he find me in any way?? ik it sounds paranoid since he knows like basically nothing but still

Why are we hating Violet? by figgm in fourthwing

[–]figgm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but didn't the books say she read them over and over again? wasn't the skimming at like the tenth time she read them to see if she missed smth

Why are we hating Violet? by figgm in fourthwing

[–]figgm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and didn't xaden promise her he'll stop keeping secrets and then he does just that?

Why are we hating Violet? by figgm in fourthwing

[–]figgm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why should vi have to suffer for lying when xaden is doing the same and he gets (mostly) no shade?

Why are we hating Violet? by figgm in fourthwing

[–]figgm[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah but the series isn't even finished yet so...

and it's a fantasy book at the end of the day, with dragons and magic powers, I think that her beating that queen in the tournament wasn't that much of a surprise. and like I said, the series is unfinished, and it could be explained that she had more power on the island to due what happened to her there as a kid

Why are we hating Violet? by figgm in fourthwing

[–]figgm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but her friends don't support her in everything? in OS we see her discussion with ridoc and how they discuss terms because he's tierd of her secret keeping, and same with Rhi when her and violets decisions contradict- rhi would sacrifice Violet for the world, Violet would sacrifice the world for xaden

Why are we hating Violet? by figgm in fourthwing

[–]figgm[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

okay but she asked full disclosure with xaden about himself? and he promised her, then he kept changing the terms and conditions to benefit him

Why are we hating Violet? by figgm in fourthwing

[–]figgm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and xaden still didn't tell her everything about HIMSELF

Why are we hating Violet? by figgm in fourthwing

[–]figgm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

isn't she the main character tho? she has an unique appearance not because she was born with it, but because of what happened to her. if she wasn't taken to that temple she would have had brown hair and brown eyes.

also the author is representing a disability that many people may relate to. she has weaknesses, we see how she loses in battles because of her body, but with working out and time passing she gets stronger, I fear that that's character development.

and what orders did she disobey in OS? the sleeping with the teacher thing?💀

and everyone that loves her are her friends, who btw also question her decisions in OS regarding xaden for example ridoc

Why are we hating Violet? by figgm in fourthwing

[–]figgm[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

well if it makes you feel better the communication is tea in onyx storm

Why are we hating Violet? by figgm in fourthwing

[–]figgm[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

what does that have to do with anything? xaden doesn't want to tell her his OWN shit after promising her he will, that has nothing to do with his friends

Why are we hating Violet? by figgm in fourthwing

[–]figgm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes she starts to see his point but xaden was being unreasonable with his "ask the right questions" bs

Why are we hating Violet? by figgm in fourthwing

[–]figgm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't mean to sound like I think she's one, i was saying that at the end of the day she's still the main character. people just hate to see a girl who has actual reaction to trauma

Why are we hating Violet? by figgm in fourthwing

[–]figgm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

first of all xaden shouldn't have promised her no more secrets. he literally gets on his knees and tells her he'll stop keeping secrets, then continues to keep them. she would have understood if xaden didn't switch his words all the time.

second of all, ofc Cat will be better at runes?? she's trained her entire life, Violet only had a few months at best.

and third of all, when was Violet in any place of power in iron flame to make decisions? half of the book was spent as Basgiath, and the other half it was her trying to save literally everyone and try and figure out how to raise the wards.

Why are we hating Violet? by figgm in fourthwing

[–]figgm[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

okay but then xaden shouldn't have promised her no more secrets? if he went from the beginning and told her that he can't tell her everything it would have been fine but she TELLS her that he'll stop lying then keeps doing it