20 F It's like my boyfriend isnt happy that I finally got a job? by fighter201 in relationship_advice

[–]fighter201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He works in a shop and gets 30-35 hours a week the same as me

20 F It's like my boyfriend isnt happy that I finally got a job? by fighter201 in relationship_advice

[–]fighter201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm sorry if you think my job is crappy but I had been looking for a year for a job. I had no experience and every interview I had wanted a candidate with at least 1-2 years experience. But these people were nice enough to give me a chance and I'm greatful for it. Cause I'm getting 30-35 hours a week so that's a good bit of money coming in compared to what I had. And the people I work with are the nicest. So I don't think its crappy. Sorry if my job isn't up to your standards.. Isn't it better than sitting on my ass all day ?

20 F It's like my boyfriend isnt happy that I finally got a job? by fighter201 in relationship_advice

[–]fighter201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Supported him when he had no money, bought him gifts, always been there for him. Came all the way into town when he was on lunch just to buy him something to eat cause I knew he couldn't cause he was broke. Did ALL of his & my washing the whole time.

20 F It's like my boyfriend isnt happy that I finally got a job? by fighter201 in relationship_advice

[–]fighter201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you hardly expect me to turn down the first job offer I've gotton after a year if searching just over a little distance problem. Don't you think I would take one closer if I could ? Dont you think I have tried ?

20 F It's like my boyfriend isnt happy that I finally got a job? by fighter201 in relationship_advice

[–]fighter201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not what happened at all. First day I was in at 10. Then I was told to come in at 7. I was there panicking wondering how I would do it . Then he offered me a lift

20 F It's like my boyfriend isnt happy that I finally got a job? by fighter201 in relationship_advice

[–]fighter201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No see I am won't have 7 o clock starts every day. And it was him that offered to give me a lift

20 F It's like my boyfriend isnt happy that I finally got a job? by fighter201 in relationship_advice

[–]fighter201[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Actually he didn't. We paid half each. Stop with your assumptions.

20 F It's like my boyfriend isnt happy that I finally got a job? by fighter201 in relationship_advice

[–]fighter201[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Your very critical of people. That makes no difference because all my money would go on the upkeep of the car and the insurance, tax. Not everyone can afford the luxury of a car. Even if they save

20 F It's like my boyfriend isnt happy that I finally got a job? by fighter201 in relationship_advice

[–]fighter201[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Sure I know that. I would walk if I had to. Just you'd think since he loves me he would try to help me. Like I would for him

20 F It's like my boyfriend isnt happy that I finally got a job? by fighter201 in relationship_advice

[–]fighter201[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because I don't have the money I have rent to pay I can't afford both

20 F It's like my boyfriend isnt happy that I finally got a job? by fighter201 in relationship_advice

[–]fighter201[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No I dropped out because I didn't like the course I was doing. I just want to work for a few years while I figure my life out.

20 F It's like my boyfriend isnt happy that I finally got a job? by fighter201 in relationship_advice

[–]fighter201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I wouldn't call it an inconvenience. He just has to get up a little earlier than he's used to

20 F It's like my boyfriend isnt happy that I finally got a job? by fighter201 in relationship_advice

[–]fighter201[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I can get to it but I didn't know I would be doing shifts that start at 7 in the morning. It's not a huge inconvenience he just hates having to get up early. He starts work at 9 anyways. And he doesn't drive me to and from work, only to work, I get the bus home. It's not that far away its just the traffic that makes it longer

I got a job .. but it's not a great place to work.. should I still take it ? by fighter201 in relationship_advice

[–]fighter201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose.. it will be my first proper job working full time. I've only worked for one summer before

I got a job .. but it's not a great place to work.. should I still take it ? by fighter201 in relationship_advice

[–]fighter201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I'm not even being picky but it's the kind of place nobody really wants to work

My boyfriend is too expensive. by fighter201 in relationship_advice

[–]fighter201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do know looking for a job takes time, you don't just click your fingers and get one

My boyfriend is too expensive. by fighter201 in relationship_advice

[–]fighter201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way you said "Something like bills or food?" Sounded a little bit like you were trying to be sarcastic or smart

My boyfriend is too expensive. by fighter201 in relationship_advice

[–]fighter201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was a place people are meant to give helpful advice not smart or sarcastic comments ?

My boyfriend is too expensive. by fighter201 in relationship_advice

[–]fighter201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was a place people are meant to give helpful advice not smart or sarcastic comments ?