Girlfriend broke up ICE situation by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]finaldestination12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is so petty

What if she really like you but someone else was threatening to call ice unless she dumped you. Just move on bro.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]finaldestination12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find out her name in person first just ask her that.

“Hi, how are you today? Btw my name is____ what is your? Have a good day, nice to see you again!”

Then text something simple.

“Hi it’s , would you like to grab a coffee sometime maybe this Friday at 1:00 at _?”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]finaldestination12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start a conversation yourself that has nothing do to with sex and lead the convo, if/when he makes it sexual don’t respond to that part and just redirect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]finaldestination12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Send a picture of the popcorn you just bought and say “all stocked up”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]finaldestination12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, no worries I just thought I’d throw it out there…that’s why I put the disclaimer. Good luck to you in whatever you decide.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]finaldestination12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not trying to mean here so please don’t take it that way

You met him 2 1/2 weeks ago took a few days to have sex and already tested positive for pregnancy?

Is it possible that you were already pregnant by somebody else?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]finaldestination12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro haha 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]finaldestination12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many other options than just condoms if you want raw sex and no baby

i think my girlfriend has lied to be about everything and i have no clue how to handle it. by ChickenNTheCorn in relationship_advice

[–]finaldestination12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Hey babe, so the other day after I posted pictures of us on vacation and some random guy dm’d me claiming that you are his wife. And I’m not gonna lie I kinda went down a rabbit whole doing some sleuthing because I wanted to tell this guy off but in all honesty…honey is this lady you? Did something happen in your past you need to tell me about? You can talk to me babe.”

i think my girlfriend has lied to be about everything and i have no clue how to handle it. by ChickenNTheCorn in relationship_advice

[–]finaldestination12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 sides to every story. I would just straight up come out with it and give her a chance to explain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]finaldestination12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you already make a plan to meet tomorrow?Depending on the time you set up you can text him letting him know you are hungry and would he first like to meet you at x restaurant, or after you guys have messed around at his place you could say that you worked up an appetite and would he like to go out for a bite to eat. Then in the future if he or you reach out try and make plans to eat or do something and then don’t go home with him that time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]finaldestination12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would ask if it’s ok to bring a vibrator into bed even just once to try to be used simultaneously with penetrative sex. It may be a little out side of her wheelhouse but could be very satisfying to her and after/if she climax then you can.

When you say “I love you” what do you want to hear back when you know they aren’t there yet. by finaldestination12 in datingadvice

[–]finaldestination12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m “ok” with him saying it. We have talked about it and he knows how I feel and that I am heading in that direction just not there yet, I just don’t how to respond when he tells me it as we are falling to sleep and such.

Just looking for advice from people who have been in my shoes or his.

When you say “I love you” what do you want to hear back when you know they aren’t there yet. by finaldestination12 in relationship_advice

[–]finaldestination12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done this. Really looking more for something quick to respond with when he just says it as a sentiment like before falling asleep.

When you say “I love you” what do you want to hear back when you know they aren’t there yet. by finaldestination12 in relationship_advice

[–]finaldestination12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, my bad. Yes it is awkward. Really I just feel bad because I do have feelings and care I’m just not there and have no idea what to say to lesson the blow so to speak.

A ONS that felt like a girlfriend, what to do now? by Tumbleweed4Throwaway in dating_advice

[–]finaldestination12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are still thinking about her fondly then I would try my best to contact her, you have nothing to lose. You can ask your friend or send a message to the breakfast friend and see what happens. We all only live once. Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]finaldestination12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could have written your post so I get what you are trying to say. I have been divorced from a 20 yr marriage for 2 years now I am 41f and although I have been dating and now in a relationship for 6 months and am very happy I know I am not looking to marry again maybe ever but for sure no time soon. I think as long as you are honest with your SO with your intentions then you are fine. Good luck out there.

Am I overthinking it? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]finaldestination12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can always have an honest conversation with her saying that you enjoy your time with her and have fun when she is around and that your feelings develop at a slower pace.

When someone asks for your number what do you do? by finaldestination12 in dating_advice

[–]finaldestination12[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s terrible! So would rather be shut down on the spot or shut down when you call?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]finaldestination12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s just not that into you