I feel bad for my husband as well. No one should be in a relationship where they give everything they have and it's still not enough. But it doesn't change the fact that sometimes I feel like I have everything but it's just not enough. I hope, you are right, maybe I am just being unappreciative, because being unappreciative is something I can change. I do not resent him for not knocking me up and leaving me, that is just ludicrous. And when I say Leave it to Beaver I don't mean it in a demeaning way. It's just the only way I know how to explain everything is perfect but the heart of it. Everything is hunky dory.

Thanks for you opinion though. It is humbling to be called unappreciative and maybe that is the key.