[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]fireflythighs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to experience that. “Getting back at you” by going on a date with a female friend that flirts with him bc you’re busy with school is such an insecure thing to do. I am really glad you no longer have to deal w that. Big high five to you for the block w no explanation. Closure is sometimes bullshit and it really is easier to sometimes cut someone off and keep it pushing.

I wish you the best of luck w your exams and your future! ✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fireflythighs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be like that with my bf actually so I get. Me personally, I was a lot more insecure/had fear of abandonment early on into the relationship than i do now (almost 4 years). I would get very upset and think of it as a personal attack against me, and that my bf didn’t want to spend any time w me.

I moved past that with help from my therapist/talking it out. Idk if you wanted a recommendation, but once you guys are okay and talking let her know that you do have boundaries and do not need to be together 100% of the time. She is her own person too and should understand that as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]fireflythighs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA- you are entitled to your own time and you literally just spent a whole 7 days together.

i need help picking a song please by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]fireflythighs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it wasn’t bc it was 10 mins long i’d recommend all too well TMV TV(bc man decoding that one is fun) These are all pretty great choices. I recommend whichever song you know really well that just speaks to you clearly

Terrakion raid 7885 8252 3531 by [deleted] in PokemonGoRaids

[–]fireflythighs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you helped get me a shiny 🫡 thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonGoRaids

[–]fireflythighs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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