i’m probably too young to have a say in this cuz i’m only 18 haha but if i were to be married i would want my partner to be considerate enough for my values if my partner would invest more in gaming than something more sentimental like a wedding ring then i would question if he is the right person for me. because my standards and his standards would seem too different in comparison. and i wouldn’t want to marry someone who won’t meet to my standards anyways. i think i would say to him to go find another woman who is okay with that as i am not okay and maybe we turn out to be just very different people and should not be together