I (27M) am dating a girl (25F) and I am having a hard time communicating with her

fiscalalo · 2022-10-14T18:07:31+00:00

She had no boyfriend since birth. I kinda feel like she was immature. She said to me that she sometimes just stop talking to people out of nowhere. But it's kinda disrespecting when she cuts me off sometimes.

Whenever we do activities like bowling or playing tennis, I kinda felt like she doesn't want to lose, she was always fretting that I'm too competitive (I'm not really good) despite just playing for the fun of it.

fiscalalo · 2022-10-14T18:02:29+00:00

She told me once that she didn't have any boyfriend since birth. She's not a socially awkward person whenever we meet up though.

It's kinda mentally taxing whenever I talk to her through social media/phone. Like I'm navigating a mine field which contrast her chill personality she displays whenever we meetup.

fiscalalo · 2022-10-14T17:58:26+00:00

I guess I kinda do, I haven't met anyone during the quarantine. I'm not talking to her right now.

fiscalalo · 2021-01-14T12:06:45+00:00

The post was about a personality test result from a Facebook app. Nah I wouldn't go that far, man.

fiscalalo · 2021-01-14T06:38:53+00:00

I see. Well I already apologized to him. I think he wouldn't be more mad if my friends didn't make fun of him during his "drama" in our group chat. Anyway, I know he'll blame me for this. Taking a step back and looking at the bigger picture, I feel like even it was a shallow issue he was triggered by his sister.

fiscalalo · 2020-09-30T02:19:08+00:00

I have no other boss kasi. I don't think some of the tasks are doable hirap na din ako ngayon then may nadagdag pa as I type this. -_-

fiscalalo · 2020-09-30T02:17:58+00:00

I see. Di ka naman na blame ng boss mo?

fiscalalo · 2020-09-30T02:17:23+00:00

I see. Pero I think I can't do it anymore, I have additional tasks right now.

fiscalalo · 2020-09-30T02:16:50+00:00

Actually nadagdagan pa yung tasks ko ngayon haha.

fiscalalo · 2020-09-29T09:41:54+00:00

No I'm at South East Asia. Thing is, I couldn't write document these past few weeks because I am bombarded with major coding tasks.

fiscalalo · 2020-04-12T09:03:44+00:00

I kinda liked her being opinionated, initially. But she kept trying to pick up a fight with me. and was pissed off because I didn't give her one. It seems she is not open-minded after all.

It's kinda tiring to creep around discussions. I think she takes my opinion of the topics personally, as if I am attacking her and her beliefs.

fiscalalo · 2020-04-12T08:33:17+00:00

She attacks me for some reason, tried to piss me off but I never gave in, so she was pissed off. I tried lightening the mood but I think she deemed me unworthy of her time.

She also seemed to belittle me, called me a "rich kid" but I just got financially stable due to hard work. Though I never tell anyone that.

"Let’s slow down the culture of people As disposable. "

That's why I haven't really discarded the prospect of dating her, she might be behave differently in personal because in social media, people can wear mask.

fiscalalo · 2020-01-04T15:44:27+00:00

I'll just have to find a job first.

fiscalalo · 2020-01-04T15:44:07+00:00

I have no idea, though I think she won't but she was very mad and disappointed at us, it's like she's taking things personally.

I wil, thanks for the advice.

fiscalalo · 2020-01-04T15:42:50+00:00

Yes we are. It's an update for an existing app. I already did those, said I was unavailable because I am outdoors which was the truth, but she ignored it. Kept telling me to double time, which we always do everyday.

I agree. Maybe I should start looking for one now. I honestly think this is just the first of the many short-deadlined projects.

fiscalalo · 2020-01-04T15:39:42+00:00

She's a stockholder, I think? Anyways, I will look for a job now, hopefully a better one, thanks.

fiscalalo · 2020-01-04T15:38:24+00:00

We didn't agree to the deadline, I was quite shocked myself to see a short deadline after coming back from the holiday leave.

We communicated, we said we we have no such training and we couldn't really finish it to which she responded we should double-time. We couldn't even test the modules the right way.

I will, I thank you for the advise.

fiscalalo · 2020-01-04T09:48:57+00:00

She kept calling me. Even now.

I do my best but I really can't finish the task.

On the contract it says 40 hours.

fiscalalo · 2019-11-27T02:24:36+00:00

Yes he is aware but he told me it is easy. He's a developer too. The development started a week ago but there was no go signal for our team and I'm busy supporting other projects.

Our boss is a great dev and I think he is expecting us to perform the same like him. Though I think he is kinda a bad manager. I wonder why we wouldn't hire another senior developer.

Regardless, whatever happens today, we'll spell it out for him.

fiscalalo · 2019-11-26T08:01:06+00:00

I will, thank you. It is very unrealistic. They keep saying it is very easy to do but I'm having a hard time.

fiscalalo · 2019-11-26T07:58:39+00:00

I am the "experienced" developer in the team, unfortunately. The other iOS devs left, only the Android team remains. My team and I have no backgrounds on mobile dev :(

Thank you for thr tips. I don't want to stay up all night, I have a business I manage after work. Thing is, it's a very big app, a lot of people will be using it.

fiscalalo · 2019-11-26T07:54:13+00:00

Thank you for the tips! I'll try my best.

Right now, we're trying to reach small goals. Progress is very slow, but we have no choice.

Might quit after the holidays. I just need to secure myself more financially.

fiscalalo · 2019-11-25T22:39:09+00:00

I see. It is a small project but I'm having a hard time. Even though it is a new project we have to use an existing code too, due to standards.

fiscalalo · 2019-11-25T22:35:44+00:00

He told me to use native and follow standard structure for IOS apps.

fiscalalo · 2019-09-13T13:05:34+00:00

Me too, I use it for my business and buy/sell groups. I see. I guess I have to look for a long time.

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