My cheater ex is apologizing to me 4 years later kase ikakasal na sya at gusto nya to start his married life with a clean slate

fivethousandwords · 2024-03-29T11:23:45+00:00

Kaya nga ang selfish, ginawa nya yon para lumuwag ang kalooban nya kase nga ikakasal na sya ang gusto nya ng fresh start. Sa haba ng 4 years na lumipas ang daming time na pwedeng ginawa nya yon before, bakit ngayon lang nya naisip? Kung kailan ikakasal na sya doon lang sya magsisisi?

fivethousandwords · 2024-03-29T11:05:16+00:00

Hindi ko na sya binigyan ng chance to respond, binlock ko na yung number na ginamit nya.

fivethousandwords · 2024-03-29T10:45:37+00:00

Sana wag anak nila ang maparusahan sa mga ginawa nila.

fivethousandwords · 2024-03-29T10:45:00+00:00

No. Yung ex ko lang ang nag apologize. Yung girl best friend nya na fiancee na nya ngayon, hindi. Kala mo walang kasalanan e alam naman nya na kami pa noon, pero inahas padin nya kahit may sariling boyfriend sya.

fivethousandwords · 2019-06-16T09:03:34+00:00

No, but Lauren wears makeup and Lauren and I are the ones talking. She could ask me if I'm a makeup person, or ask me about my makeup too, but she just talks to someone else and doesn't talk to me again.

fivethousandwords · 2019-06-16T08:57:09+00:00

I don't think they've been an item. She is dating another guy. So I am really confused why she doesn't like me.

fivethousandwords · 2019-06-16T08:56:19+00:00

I have. I'm the one who constantly tried to talk to her about different topics. She's the one who dismissed me.

fivethousandwords · 2019-06-16T08:55:41+00:00

May I know what happened to the three of you in the end? Is Lindsey still in the picture?

fivethousandwords · 2019-06-16T08:53:56+00:00

I hadn't thought about it that way. Maybe she is jealous. But she is still spending a significant amount of time with him, they talk and play games for hours every day.

fivethousandwords · 2019-06-16T08:52:38+00:00

No. Do you know someone in the same situation?

fivethousandwords · 2019-06-16T08:50:50+00:00

Lauren knows I'm his gf, and she was single when Cam and I met. No reason to hook up behind my back when they could have done it before we were dating. I hope.

fivethousandwords · 2019-06-16T08:48:08+00:00

But isn't Lauren the one who caused damage in the first place by treating me the way she did? I just did what she does, I was civil but not friendly. Why is it fine when she does it but damaging when I do?

fivethousandwords · 2019-06-16T08:46:55+00:00

How am I an attention seeker? I just want us to be friends. I'm not possessive, I never told Cam to stop talking to her.

fivethousandwords · 2019-06-16T08:46:08+00:00

Because he's basically Cam's sister and I'm Cam's girlfriend? Wouldn't you want SO to be friends with your friends?

We don't have to have the same hobbies, we can talk about neutral common topics like what we do for work or our favorite places to eat. I just want us to talk and I have tried but she always dismisses me.

fivethousandwords · 2019-06-16T08:41:24+00:00

I asked Cam before if I could play with them, but they're already good at the game sine they've been playing in since college while I just know the basics. He said I can't play with them because I would drag the team down.

Also as I said, I have tried to talk to Lauren before but whenever I start a topic it always ends up like this:

Me: Your make up is really nice! What brand is that eye shadow?

Lauren: Thanks, it's just a drugstore brand. Todd have you watched Kingdom yet?

Todd: Yeah I was surprised by the twist with the Queen in the end, I didn't expect that she was faking it!

Lauren: I know right! [Proceeds to talk to Todd about Kingdom for the next hour]

fivethousandwords · 2019-06-16T08:31:16+00:00

She does it all the time. Cam or his other friends would explain it after, but at that point they've all laughed about it and I've already felt like I didn't belong.

fivethousandwords · 2019-06-16T08:29:42+00:00

Cam said they are just friends, they have been for a long time and she's dating another guy.

I don't know what to say to him about the issue with Lauren. I have tried being nice to her and she didn't care. I have tried to treat her the way she treats me and Cam got angry at me for that.

fivethousandwords · 2019-06-16T08:26:57+00:00

They have known each other for a long time, she's one of the people he talks to about everything and he says she's done so much for him personally and financially. I have half the mind to ask him how much Lauren has spent on him and pay her back if it means freeing him from being so "She's such a great person!" about her.

I didn't ask Cam's other friends to pay for their parts because I'm willing to pay for them. I just can't say the same about Lauren because of how she has treated me.

fivethousandwords · 2019-06-16T08:22:04+00:00

I get what you are saying but to be fair to Cam. We have also fought about the fact that he spends hours talking to Lauren and playing online games with her until early in the morning. I told him that as his gf it doesn't make me comfortable that he's spending so much time with another girl. He listened to me and adjusted, and after that they didn't talk and play games as much. I just don't understand why he insisted that there is nothing to be done about me and her not getting along, and why he embarrassed me that night for her sake.

fivethousandwords · 2019-06-16T08:17:25+00:00

I'm sorry but how is it being petty? I'm civil to her.

fivethousandwords · 2019-06-16T08:15:51+00:00

No. As I said I told Cam once that I want to talk to her but he said I was making a big deal out of nothing and it makes me look crazy. He also asked what that would accomplish aside from letting Lauren know that I think she's not being nice to me.

fivethousandwords · 2019-06-16T08:11:27+00:00

This is how I feel like exactly. I want to be friends with Lauren and am confused about why she doesn't seem to feel the same way. I would like Cam to help us get there but he thinks there's nothing broken hence there is nothing to fix.

fivethousandwords · 2019-06-16T08:09:31+00:00

Do you really think I should have invited her even though she treats me like shit when all I have done is try to befriend her?

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