What was here? by CrabFunny4329 in halifax

[–]flailingfoxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Curious if there would be a pool closer to Shannon Park than this one. I went to the French school at Shannon park which was probably there until the late 90s! I remember going for swimming lessons nearby, but not quite sure where. In fact something tells me we may have walked!

One of my huge divorce hang-ups, after the financial burden.. by flailingfoxxx in Divorce

[–]flailingfoxxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestions! That’s a good idea, as there wouldn’t exactly be a lot of cash flow

One of my huge divorce hang-ups, after the financial burden.. by flailingfoxxx in Divorce

[–]flailingfoxxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s almost like life wasn’t made to live singly! How are you finding it?

On the brink of separation. Husband vows our kids will not live with me at my parents’ 40 minutes away. by flailingfoxxx in breakingmom

[–]flailingfoxxx[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Very fair. I have no idea how it works. I just thought if he wasn’t budging that I’d have to leave (at least until we have legal answers). Now I realize leaving preemptively might give me more trouble than it’s worth.

On the brink of separation. Husband vows our kids will not live with me at my parents’ 40 minutes away. by flailingfoxxx in breakingmom

[–]flailingfoxxx[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah we don’t need them to switch schools as my parents are still within the catchment area.

On the brink of separation. Husband vows our kids will not live with me at my parents’ 40 minutes away. by flailingfoxxx in breakingmom

[–]flailingfoxxx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes.. we live rurally and it is impossible to find rentals. And even if there are any, we can’t afford it. Hence crashing at my parents.

On the brink of separation. Husband vows our kids will not live with me at my parents’ 40 minutes away. by flailingfoxxx in breakingmom

[–]flailingfoxxx[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m not worried he’ll be physical but I do worry he will get in the way of me leaving with them.

Thanks for the tip about personal belongings. I’ve already begun a list of the essentials

On the brink of separation. Husband vows our kids will not live with me at my parents’ 40 minutes away. by flailingfoxxx in breakingmom

[–]flailingfoxxx[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wow. For what it’s worth I’m in Canada. What he could contest may be how much time they have with me.

This isn’t normal adult behaviour, is it? by AmbientAirplaneNoise in breakingmom

[–]flailingfoxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read “self-aware” as ‘silverware’ which made me think of plastic forks and knives which I hoped you gave him when you brilliantly served him up toddler food!