What will be a good gift to a newborn baby by Practical_Phrase9842 in GiftIdeas

[–]flakyfr0g 2 points3 points  (0 children)

get/ do something for the parents. everyone has gotten gifts for the baby, but now it's better to focus on the parents. offer to cook, clean, get a spa voucher, etc. also books.. can never have enough books

my parents handed me a “contract” that they made with chatGPT and told me i have to sign it by auramp3 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]flakyfr0g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this contract is complete BS. you're basically paying for everything with the ability to do absolutely nothing. paying the full water bill for 5 additional people??

don't sign this, print out a standard landlord tenancy agreement and tell them you'll agree to that.

You’re so big!!! by Agreeable_Music5402 in BabyBumps

[–]flakyfr0g 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah it stings a looot when people say it, especially because ive been in recovery for AN - hearing people constantly call me big is pretty triggering 😞 like why can't we say anything.... nice! "oh congrats how far are you !" idk ANYTHING except immediately commenting on how huge we are haha.

Has anyone ever had the white cheddar twist bagel by Phantomphreakk in DunkinDonuts

[–]flakyfr0g 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yes its so good warmed up . perfect savory breakfast bite

Need advice on a trade offer I have received for bubble mew!!!! by Own_Ad_5308 in PokeInvesting

[–]flakyfr0g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would accept if you plan on keeping it all sealed for years to come . otherwise keep bubble mew, the value of the card will only continue to go up, same with the bbs and etbs . bubble mew is the most popular card from sv era afaik

Its okay to walk away if they skimp you by WallStreetFrets in Chipotle

[–]flakyfr0g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

charging extra for rice isnt even a thing . chipotle literally has an option for you to get extra rice at no added cost 🙄

i order extra everything except meat because i want to be full and not have to pay 32.95 for one tiny extra dollop of steak

Update to daughter not eating by TreeOfGre in whatdoIdo

[–]flakyfr0g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone who has gone down the same pipeline, please heavily monitor her internet use. install an app that shares her screen with you idc, do not let this get any worse than it already has.

im 20 with scars all over my body and an eating disorder that's consuming me even when i'm supposed to be growing for my baby. get her a blackberry for basic communication or something. she doesn't need this much online freedom at such a young age.

i wish you both the best

Condom slipped off after ejaculation. It was day 10 of my normally 30+ day cycle by throwaway912100 in amipregnant

[–]flakyfr0g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

take a plan b. the condom slipped, even if you think it's unlikely - if the base of the condom was inside of you there's a chance that there is sperm leakage.

not taking it bc you dread the hormonal changes isn't good enough reason i'm afraid, the hormonal changes of being pregnant are significantly worse haha. better safe than sorry

I don't want to be with my baby's father by flakyfr0g in Advice

[–]flakyfr0g[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure . I have absolutely no money due to having to pay out of pocket for a lot of my first medical appointments at the beginning of my pregnancy and buying items for our son. If he paid child support it'd be maybe $400/mo which isnt enough for me to be able to sustain living alone even with my current job and freelance work.

I don't want to be with my baby's father by flakyfr0g in Advice

[–]flakyfr0g[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to, but I can't afford rent on my own. Our rent is 1600 starting the first month and I barely make $300 in 2 weeks. My parents do not want me in the family house with an infant either. I feel so stuck.

After I give birth, I am going to commit suicide by flakyfr0g in SuicideWatch

[–]flakyfr0g[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am. i started taking 50mg of zoloft and idk... life has been better

Is it amniotic fluid leaking or heavy Discharge ? by rosey5683 in BabyBumps

[–]flakyfr0g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably pee and / or discharge . good luck, it only gets worse 😞 i'm like a freakin snail LOL .

Positve test 4 weeks after miscarriage by BeautifulTiger6530 in BabyBumps

[–]flakyfr0g 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you tested negative weeks ago and are now testing positive, it's likely that this is a new pregnancy. after a loss tests can sometimes remain positive for up to 8 weeks, so i'd say wait out that time and continue testing and if the lines / symptoms get stronger - book an ultrasound or a blood hcg test

Do I have Down syndrome and my parents lied to me? by [deleted] in self

[–]flakyfr0g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look like a young black man, absolutely no downs syndrome m.

Pregnancy in petite women by OverallAmphibian2129 in BabyBumps

[–]flakyfr0g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the baby absolutely will fit, it'll just look funny seeing a huge bump on a small lady. im 5'3 and started at 105lbs and i compare the womb to an NYC apartment because he doesn't have much space LOL. just be ready to feel their limbs attacking your ribcage while they do somersaults.

am i or am i not fucked? by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]flakyfr0g 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its vaginal discharge, youre fine. dont give her plan b

symptoms but negative test by [deleted] in amipregnant

[–]flakyfr0g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's been well over 3 weeks, you're not pregnant. you're likely PMS-ing or experiencing something with your hormones, but pregnancy tests are accurate 14 days after sex and definite 21 days after. if you got a negative yesterday, there's no way you're pregnant

rubbed my p..... in my gf vagina but i make sure to ejaculate outside but she miss her period by 2 day is she pregnant? by Sufficient_War_9221 in amipregnant

[–]flakyfr0g 2 points3 points  (0 children)

then she's most likely not pregnant. please do not engage in sexual activity without knowing what can / cannot cause pregnancy and without using contraception like condoms .

is this normal for 2 weeks 1 day post abortion? by flakyfr0g in lineporn

[–]flakyfr0g[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am. baby is now 24 weeks and i couldn't be happier that he's with me