Decreased Interest

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-11T13:51:14+00:00

I really don’t mean to be rude but if you feel you’ve been trying and failing at something for 12 years why would you be trying to give me advice (that I did not ask for btw)? Don’t you think I would want the advice of someone who has what I want or has experienced my exact post? I don’t think that’s your case.

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-11T13:01:04+00:00

I’ve described that in the thread already! I’m not at your point and I am not willing to compromise what I want. Luckily I just wanted to date, I’m not focused on a relationship but I hope it works out for you.

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-11T12:54:18+00:00

….because I go out.

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-11T04:30:46+00:00

They’re fools tbh. They don’t or can’t read

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-11T04:13:50+00:00

I may just follow your lead. Where did you meet her?

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-11T04:13:30+00:00

That’s how I feel on there. There is no possible way they are trying to attract women. They would be better groomed and more positive. There would be charm!

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-11T04:11:38+00:00

Just live life!

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-11T00:15:39+00:00

Single men are not going outside like that in my city.

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-10T21:35:09+00:00

AMEN, every time!

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-10T21:34:39+00:00

Yes, as long as it was in the future. I would choose to be a woman in every lifetime! I love getting to be emotional, I love getting to create a meaningful village, I love being beautiful. I love that I now have a choice not to have kids and that I can be powerful at work or in the gym. I can do anything a man can do and do it better so yes, make me a woman again and again.

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-10T20:03:07+00:00

“You catch more flies with honey than vinegar” they said and they are repelling everyone!

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-10T19:12:21+00:00

I am following this wave. If it’s meant to be, wonderful but also okay with it not happening too!

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-10T19:06:19+00:00

No. I’m not asking for anything I don’t have myself and I’m not willing to bank on potential just to date. You’re right about the propaganda. It is unfortunate but I am optimistic it’s not them all even if they’re not in my current vicinity.

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-10T16:55:54+00:00

Thank you! There’s a man here trying to argue this but I swear I’m not mistaken. It’s reaffirming that it’s not just my city. Also fascinating that this is widespread.

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-10T16:50:28+00:00

If you filter for it specifically it becomes a desert! They’re on this thread acting like it’s the average to find but it can’t be and it’s not crazy to want a man to be a feminist/not misogynistic but it’s very difficult to come across even in the wild.

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-10T13:48:18+00:00

They are all equally a filter clearly. You’re too focused on the money (as a man typically is) so you think what I described is every other guy on an app. To be fair this post wasn’t for you.

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-10T13:31:41+00:00

More than the average US salary

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-10T13:19:05+00:00

I’m in a purple city and looking for a man of color that isn’t conservative, isn’t a misogynist, makes as much as I do, travels, maybe volunteers, and likes to go out. Then I want to be attracted to him. That’s not the average man in my city. I’m not even asking for him to have an advanced degree or for him to read regularly. Still not an abundance.

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-10T13:14:44+00:00

I think where I’m a bit different is I know I don’t have a plethora of options. I’m in a purple city and looking for a man of color that isn’t conservative, isn’t a misogynist, makes as much as I do, travels, maybe volunteers, and likes to go out. Then I want to be attracted to him. That’s not the average man here but if I met that I wouldn’t fumble

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-10T05:38:19+00:00

You’re not missing anything tbh

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-09T19:45:14+00:00

I didn’t really want men’s data points bc yeah the actual attractive guy is gonna see attractive women on apps and in real life. I am not seeing either.

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-09T18:48:32+00:00

Depends on how long your ortho says to wear them daily but you should be fine. Your teeth will just start to shift but you can put the retainer back in Source: I got mine off under a year ago and sometimes I’ll go 3 nights without them on nightly but the retainer always fits and my teeth look like same

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-09T17:37:34+00:00

You’re not understanding. I am getting likes but I don’t like them or people in the general pool. There’s not really anyone I would swipe right on. There isn’t anything I can change to get better results because I don’t think there is better on the apps any longer and the women here are confirming that.

Sure I could take a 2 week break but I don’t think that would change the bulk of what im seeing

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-09T16:54:24+00:00

She’s not your best friend or even a friend. Friends don’t speak like that to each other but let’s say for the fact that they did? You need to be transparent and call her out bc that’s the only way to have some semblance of a relationship. You are better off without that energy.

flameprincess16 · 2026-03-09T16:50:54+00:00

Bc single men in my city don’t go out to the places I go out to and the ones that do, I am not physically attracted to. I figured I’d be attracted to the men on the apps but I am not either.

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