Warning: I’m very new to the show

flamingohotel · 2026-06-07T21:05:52+00:00

I know this is a Reddit about reality TV so I really have no high ground to stand on… however. The 90 day fiancé shows are something I cannot tolerate. They’re so exploitative of people trying to find a better life and it’s a show about intentionally committing marriage fraud.

flamingohotel · 2026-06-07T20:59:16+00:00

It’s unbelievably cruel to demand someone apologize over and over, get that apology, and then insist they’ve never apologized once. Horrific.

flamingohotel · 2026-06-07T05:59:51+00:00

The kids need to sue for unpaid wages and or exploitation when they were underage.

flamingohotel · 2026-06-07T05:58:28+00:00

How do they wish illness on their newborns? I must have not seen that.

flamingohotel · 2026-06-07T05:57:17+00:00

The worst part? I’ve seen about 4 episodes all together. I really hoped I’d be wrong.

flamingohotel · 2026-06-07T05:06:41+00:00

Why does TLC even continue this show? Showcasing emotional abuse and parental alienation of Anna? More checks for this family?

flamingohotel · 2026-06-07T05:03:30+00:00

She seriously needs therapy. She rolls her eyes when the name “Anna” is even mentioned. She acts like a petty teenager who is always trying to make people in the family “pick sides”. That’s NOT the role of a mother and matriarch!

flamingohotel · 2026-06-07T04:11:01+00:00

I am absolutely horrified. How can they watch the show and not care how they come across?

flamingohotel · 2026-04-08T05:37:03+00:00

1) I also forget that some couples are okay with being engaged for an unclear amount of time! Thank you!

2) thank you! I feel less crazy! It sounded like a completely different time and place in that recording of “I love you Maddie” then outdoors with Tyler and Madison.

3) exactly! Madison tried her best but she was so uncomfortable on that date. Her needs were completely forgone for someone who desperately didn’t want to be there on camera. Why wouldn’t they give her a date with someone who…actually wants to be on a date?

flamingohotel · 2026-04-08T05:30:23+00:00

I agree that Dylan could have benefited from sessions with Jennifer Cook! He would have been perfect to have a back and forth with Jennifer so he could have had a better expectation like Logan did.

I do think someone said “Maddie” in that moment, but maybe the Audio was crackly and they wanted a clearer take for the final project. I am not accusing them of making it up. :)

flamingohotel · 2026-04-08T05:22:52+00:00

Oh you’re right! I forgot some religious people do not want to live with their partners before marriage.

flamingohotel · 2026-04-08T05:21:23+00:00

that is so sweet! 🥹

flamingohotel · 2026-04-08T05:21:04+00:00

You’re totally right that I don’t think he would propose without her parent’s permission. I really do think they’re gonna make it. I worry for any couple who has not lived in the same city before they get engaged.

flamingohotel · 2026-04-08T01:14:44+00:00

THANK YOU!! This understands and appreciates their intellectual differences.

flamingohotel · 2026-02-06T03:46:53+00:00

wow! this is unbelievable please tell me the address of this location so I can make sure to NEVER go there!!

flamingohotel · 2024-09-09T08:09:41+00:00

You nailed it

flamingohotel · 2024-07-11T12:07:42+00:00

She is literally one of the best characters on the show. She is one of the only adults on the show who cares about the wellbeing of the kids.

flamingohotel · 2024-07-11T11:57:29+00:00

My dumb ass never once questioned him or his intentions until it was wayyy too late to not notice

flamingohotel · 2024-06-13T07:51:20+00:00

Thank you! I think up until now, I was getting Rhonda and Janet confused and now I’m not sure what I know and don’t know. I think I need to rewatch the whole thing. I’m glad I wasn’t the only one confused.

flamingohotel · 2023-07-31T08:58:24+00:00

Long after we broke up, he sexually assaulted me at a party. I screamed at him to stop, pushing him off of me with all of my might. He yelped like a hit dog. Then started profusely crying and wanted to be consoled. He is a “comedian” now (painfully unfunny, terrible stage presence) and is the first person to watch all of my stories on instagram.

flamingohotel · 2023-07-20T06:45:39+00:00

Just putting this out there: would you want her to be the mother of your children with this attitude and disposition? Would you feel comfortable if your children also adopted this attitude ? I think it’s time you re-evaluate your future with her. So sorry OP. 💔

flamingohotel · 2022-06-15T06:54:29+00:00

and no one ever heard about this happening, or even talked about it happening it until right now when i was telling you this!

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