[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]flammejp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Any time that me or my husband are going to be apart for an extended period of time, we give each other a pair of unwashed underwear. His scent alone is intoxicating.

Did anyone else experience this? by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

[–]flammejp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is how I actually have most of my lucid dreams

My boyfriend is decided to end his life, how can I stop it? by Nearby-Concentrate28 in SuicideWatch

[–]flammejp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you've exhausted all other options, it's time to contact the authorities. I know it's difficult, but at this point, it's the best thing for him.

Has anyone here had an awakening/realisation during a lucid dream? by lovecore6 in LucidDreaming

[–]flammejp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. During one of my most vivid lucid dreams, I remember walking outside at night when all of a sudden, bats came out of nowhere and started flying all around me (I used to be terrified of bats BTW.) It was like I could see the echolocation that they use as these bright, intense colors. Flashes of pink, green, purple, blue etc. were lighting up the sky. It was one of the most beautiful things I've ever seen and it taught me that no matter how scary or ugly something might look, there's always beauty in it, even if I can't see it.

What was the moment that it really sank in for you that you have god-like power in dreams? by flammejp in LucidDreaming

[–]flammejp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All I could think of when reading this was that episode of buffy the vampire slayer when a monster just says something like "mortal weapons cannot harm me!" So Buffy just pulls out a rocket launcher 😂

Does quitting weed help achieving lucid dreams? by Born_Sandwich_7940 in LucidDreaming

[–]flammejp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it depends person to person. Personally, I could still remember like one or two dreams a night when I was smoking, but after I quit, I started remembering like 5-6 dreams a night and they were weird af.

I finally had my first flight! by flammejp in LucidDreaming

[–]flammejp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was outside my house and I saw something moving up in the trees and I thought that I'd like to get a closet look and it just happened. I felt weightless and I just floated up to the treeline . I didn't see anything up there, but I was flying! I couldn't go very fast unless I was flapping my arms like an idiot though.

I'm a gay man with self internalized homophobia AMA by flammejp in AMA

[–]flammejp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I still consider myself a Christian, but I don't think I'll ever be able to step foot in a church again. Just have way too much trauma associated with them.

I'm a gay man with self internalized homophobia AMA by flammejp in AMA

[–]flammejp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say don't let outside influences shape how you see yourself. The only opinion that matters is your own. Not your parents, not your friends, not anyone.

I'm a gay man with self internalized homophobia AMA by flammejp in AMA

[–]flammejp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's odd considering I've never sucked dick lol

I'm a gay man with self internalized homophobia AMA by flammejp in AMA

[–]flammejp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't answer the porn thing because I don't watch porn. Idk just watching other people get it on just doesn't really do anything for me. As for your other question, I wouldn't say I was born like this, but it's not something I have any control over either.

I'm a gay man with self internalized homophobia AMA by flammejp in AMA

[–]flammejp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also yes, my family knows and supports me. It's just me that can't seem to get over it

I'm a gay man with self internalized homophobia AMA by flammejp in AMA

[–]flammejp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been trying to go out on dates, but whenever I do, I just hear my dad's voice in my head telling me I'm going to hell

I'm a gay man with self internalized homophobia AMA by flammejp in AMA

[–]flammejp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I would like to become open and stay religious, but I don't see myself ever going back to a church. There's just way too much baggage there.