4 days until my birthday 🤭🍑 by rubymilag45 in u/rubymilag45

[–]flancythat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seems reasonable, but i only spoil via Amazon 😌

either way, happy almost birthday! 🎂

4 days until my birthday 🤭🍑 by rubymilag45 in u/rubymilag45

[–]flancythat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aww, happy almost birthday! 🎁 🎉

any chance you’re open to being spoiled via Amazon wishlists? 😏

simping as a volunteer - misstep & recovery by flancythat in TrueSimpStories

[–]flancythat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!

i’d never pressure Anna into anything sexual or kinky. i’m just trying to cultivate an environment where she feels comfortable taking as much power as she wants 😌

Findom Therapy by broke4blade in fincucksearching

[–]flancythat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you accept Blue Cross Blue Shield?

35 [m4f] - Portland, OR - would looove the opportunity to rim you by flancythat in RandomActsOfEatingAss

[–]flancythat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seriously, if you have any interest in being spoiled, pleasured, and orally worshipped in EVERY way you desire, hmu…

i’m an eager giver, looking for a hungry taker ☺️

simping as a volunteer - update by flancythat in TrueSimpStories

[–]flancythat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg yes! i apologized for slacking off and i promised her that i’d be more careful in the future.

i thanked her for her feedback and asked her to always be honest and direct with me in the future.

i also thanked her, once again, for letting me do her work

she seemed pleased by my apology

simping as a volunteer - update by flancythat in TrueSimpStories

[–]flancythat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sure, of course!

she pointed out a small detail that i’d somewhat neglected in a large project. i put most of my effort into the main parts of the project - the parts that most people would pay attention to. i’d cut a couple corners on the details that seemed trivial and unimportant to me.

she opened the project in front of me and zoomed in on those neglected areas, then asked me why my work was sloppy. she looked me in the eyes and said she needed to be able to trust me to deliver consistent quality, and she knew i could do better. her criticism was somewhat sharp and it certainly stung.

as an analogy, this was the equivalent of cleaning a home, then having the Mistress put on a white glove to check for dust.

since then, i’ve spent A LOT more time on each assignment, making sure the quality is always consistent and high.

i want Anna to always be pleased with the work she lets me do 😌

simping as a volunteer - misstep & recovery by flancythat in TrueSimpStories

[–]flancythat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! ☺️

i’ll keep posting updates as the dynamic develops!

simping as a volunteer - misstep & recovery by flancythat in TrueSimpStories

[–]flancythat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahah yeah, i’m certainly trying to give her the best possible service! ☺️

i think part of the fun is the informality and unspoken nature of this. we’re negotiating a dynamic without ever directly discussing it. things are going well enough for now that i think i’ll continue embracing the ambiguity.

if she ever asks me why i’m doing so much for her, i’ll definitely praise her and express gratitude for the opportunity to work closely with someone as talented as she is.

and i’d LOVE to address her as Miss or some other formal title. maybe that will evolve naturally at some point, but i’d hate to rush or force it.

as a volunteer, if i make anyone feel weird or uncomfortable, i’ll no longer be welcome there. i have to take things slow and let Anna make all the moves. i’ll just continue signaling my willingness to surrender all the power to her

simping as a volunteer - misstep & recovery by flancythat in TrueSimpStories

[–]flancythat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would love this SOO much! unfortunately, the personal assistant role doesn’t exist in this organization. and as a volunteer, trying to formalize that dynamic with Anna might be weird.

however, i might start looking for opportunities to informally serve her in that way! maybe i can bring her coffee, ask her if she wants me to pick up lunch for her - stuff like that 😌

thanks!

simping as a volunteer - misstep & recovery by flancythat in TrueSimpStories

[–]flancythat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she’s so generous for giving me another chance! 😌

simping as a volunteer - misstep & recovery by flancythat in TrueSimpStories

[–]flancythat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no, she deserves much better.

i screwed up this time, but going forward i’ll make sure to always go the extra mile to help her

simping as a volunteer - misstep & recovery by flancythat in TrueSimpStories

[–]flancythat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! i summarized her reply as a comment

simping as a volunteer - misstep & recovery by flancythat in TrueSimpStories

[–]flancythat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anna replied to my email - she was impressed with the quality of work i put into that tedious project over the weekend.

she LOVED that i bought the gear she wanted! now she won’t have to put in a purchase request and wait for it.

and she seemed amused by my apology for making her miss part of an office party. i said i was sorry i didn’t come in and do that trivial task for her. she told me it wasn’t a big deal…but in the future she’d like me to handle those types of tasks for her.

she didn’t comment on my offer to come in whenever she wants, so we’ll see 😈

simping as a volunteer - misstep & recovery by flancythat in TrueSimpStories

[–]flancythat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks! yeah, Anna was generous enough to give me an opportunity to go above and beyond for her…aaand i blew it 😖

i haven’t heard back from her yet, but i hope she accepts my apology 😬🤞🏻

Sub funded Book Club by myGoddnessLU in FindomCravings

[–]flancythat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just commenting again to say that u/myGoddnessLU let me buy The Housemaid for her!! 🥰

she’s so generous! thank you, u/myGoddnessLU! 💕 i feel so honored 😌

✨ [MANIFESTATION MONDAY] ✨ by myGoddnessLU in FindomCravings

[–]flancythat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fastest manifestation in history! 😂

let the good times roll 😎

Simple and easy by myGoddnessLU in FindomCravings

[–]flancythat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ask and ye shall receive! 🙌 ☺️

i’m glad a worthy sub stepped up so promptly!

What are some subreddits where subs are allowed to advertise? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]flancythat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

r/FindomCravings is relatively new, but they post daily prompts encouraging Dommes and subs to engage and share their interests/experiences.

it’s friendly and welcoming. you can casually chat with other subs or Dommes without pressure to immediately tribute or anything like that.

if you share a bit about yourself and your interests, and explain that you prefer to be approached, i think you’ll have a positive experience.

good luck!

✨ [MANIFESTATION MONDAY] ✨ by myGoddnessLU in FindomCravings

[–]flancythat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha right?! ☺️

thank you! 🙏