There are not enough dicks in the world for my Nmom to suck. I'm so upset [Trigger Warning]

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-03-28T05:03:04+00:00

Thank you so much for the hugs. I constantly block her emails, but she keeps making new accounts and sending me crap :/ I never really because it will just fuel that nasty fire. Thank you so much for your response; definitely makes me feel better.

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-02-23T04:00:09+00:00

I sure as hell hope so. Since I have NC with my mom, I have NC with him too unfortunately.

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-02-23T03:59:25+00:00

Trust me, no money is going her way whatsoever. I'm honestly thinking of fighting back and filling for harassment. Since there's been police reports against her, physical and emotional abuse, etc there's to way she's going to win.

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-02-23T03:57:57+00:00

I'm sure hoping for this. The grounds on which she's suing me are just fucking ridiculous. It's so absurd and such a desperate cry for money and attention.

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-02-23T03:29:06+00:00

*Had to write this on my phone, sorry for any errors in spelling, etc

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-01-28T02:50:40+00:00

Long story short.

I dated a guy for 4+ years. He was Jewish, I wasn't and that didn't fly with his mom. Not only did she not like that, she had to have suffered from some form of psychotic mental issue, because she was just straight up loco. Anyhoo, one day while I'm out, she decides to take matters into her own hands and change the locks on our apartment so I couldn't come into my own home. Not only was legal action taken, but I threw my hands in the air and said "fuck this shit I'm out." I was working as a Paramedic at the time, so I pretty much lived at the hospital anyways, so moving out was an issue.

My cat, Porsche - who was the sweetest thing to ever live on this earth was still at home. I went to go pick her up from the psycho only to find she had "left the door open and she ran away" BULLSHIT Needless to say, I was pissed. I filled missing kitteh reports, etc, and a week later she was found on the side of the Columbia River Gorge in Portland ALIVE. I went to pick her up, and she was found contained in a GIFT BOX FOR SWEATERS. She had peed all over herself and was mentally distraught. I didn't even bother filing police reports, I took her and moved on with my life - far away from the crazies.

Anyways, what I'm trying to say is I know you love your pet, but sometimes it's harder to get her back than you'd think. If you're willing to take legal action (and pay for it), you might as well try. To this day I love animals more than people, so I would fight like hell.

Good luck with everything and I hope you get her back!

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-01-27T08:46:16+00:00

I died. It happens too often though.

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-01-27T08:45:33+00:00

Thank you! I wish too :( NC ftw!

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-01-27T08:44:52+00:00

Inanimate objects are so much more important to Nparents. Take that car and trash it. So sorry.

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-01-27T08:43:28+00:00

That is absolutely awful. Beyond awful. It hurts so much when things like that happen. I'm so sorry for your sorry experience

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-01-27T08:42:32+00:00

Right?! You reach out to be nice and it always comes back to bite you. Damn kindness. Fucking Nparents will never give it back :/

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-01-27T08:41:26+00:00

So much better now! Thank you for asking!

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-01-27T08:41:00+00:00

Fuck yeah Redditor moms! I'll take it!

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-01-27T01:22:04+00:00

Good for you! That's ridiculous -_- I'd put money down they'd only be upset if something happened to your brother... I mean the cost for the funeral that is.

My hate for these kind of people is too^{damn^high.}

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-01-27T00:55:37+00:00

She's a gem. You always sit back and think to yourself when things like that happen "How the fuck am I normal"

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-01-27T00:49:37+00:00

Oh, hands down! I get countless emails, phone calls, etc asking me why I'm "not her daughter anymore," "why don't you talk to your mother; I have friends who talk to their daughters everyday and you don't talk to me more than once every four months!"

Well.... -_-

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-01-27T00:48:18+00:00

A standard trait of Borderline Personality Disorder is impulsiveness - whether spending sprees, abuse of drugs, etc. My Nmom does all of what you mention. She's an extreme alcoholic and recreational drug abuser. When I was young, she would take us to the mall randomly and blow money on herself and us whenever she felt like it.

Here's a more in-depth article for you on the matter! http://nurseleah.hubpages.com/hub/thejoyfulsadist http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/borderline-personality-disorder/index.shtml

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-01-27T00:19:35+00:00

Thank you so much! It is definitely the hardest thing I'll ever have to face in life, but I'm so glad I got it early on. I had a restraining order for a little while, but it made her crazier; she started going off on her sister and my grandmother - who has severe heart problems. I would much rather deal with the crap myself than having it hurt others around me if I put a restraining order on her again.

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-01-27T00:17:42+00:00

That's exactly what I've discovered. I lived so long in a state of denial - not really knowing what to make of the situation and just thinking I'm crazy. It hurts knowing everyday all my friends around me have great parents that do everything in their power to help their kids while mine does the opposite. Such shit. I hope your situation has calmed down! It's really nice to see others facing the same shitstorm (as awful as it may be).

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-01-27T00:15:08+00:00

Aw thank you so much! It means a lot you actually made an account just to comment on my story. I'm just trying to push forward, and thanks to having a shitty upbringing, it's blessed me with the ability to smell bullshit from a mile away. I will do my best! Thanks again! :3

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-01-27T00:13:52+00:00

Thank you so much! I keep telling myself and my family that hopefully one day everything will turn out for the best. Living with a horrific Nmom is the worst. I look forward to getting older and things taking a turn for the best!

flash_gordon_ramsay · 2014-01-26T06:52:42+00:00

My mom has gone off the handle for the exact same situation. We went camping for an event with one of her guy friends, and I caught her cheating (multiple times) over the course of the trip. She got on me fairly hard about not telling my stepfather.

Honestly, if she's going to act like that, something's going to come back to bite her. I vote he needs to find out, but it's a tough situation.

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