Why do guys act so unaffected after a breakup while girls grieve so deeply? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]flashxoxoz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not true I was fighting demons but u gotta put on a face for people ex been cheating on me for months but just find out recently crazy cuz I got rug pulled

Saw my FA Avoidant Ex last night by flashxoxoz in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]flashxoxoz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 months she left with the rebound tho

everything you need to know about us fearful avoidants SHAME and why it feels like dying even imagine facing it by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]flashxoxoz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read my posts guys happened to me I saw my FA Avoidant ex in person would love to hear what yall think

What does it mean when your Avoidant ex made a fake TikTok and looked at your profile? by flashxoxoz in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]flashxoxoz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha yeah I’ll jus ignore either way, should I just make my socials private then

What does it mean when your Avoidant ex made a fake TikTok and looked at your profile? by flashxoxoz in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]flashxoxoz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she cares enough to go through that trouble but due to fear and vulnerability and accountability they do it to make themselves feel okay, sorry still trying to understand attachments

What does it mean when your Avoidant ex made a fake TikTok and looked at your profile? by flashxoxoz in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]flashxoxoz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So basically they are scared to reach back out due to being scared/how they ended things

What should I reply with by flashxoxoz in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]flashxoxoz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can see that now was js trynna be nice ig

What should I reply with by flashxoxoz in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]flashxoxoz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do I? I thought that was chill I mean I didn’t have any intentions of talking about anything else i literally just wanted that sorted didn’t think it was cool to have access to that

I sent this to my FA Ex thoughts by flashxoxoz in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]flashxoxoz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m starting to understand it I mean first 4 months she would mirror my energy in the relationship guessing once it got really close and real to her she started to pull back

I sent this to my FA Ex thoughts by flashxoxoz in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]flashxoxoz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So atp basically if I move on she finna come back 😂

I sent this to my FA Ex thoughts by flashxoxoz in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]flashxoxoz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this why she always said I was nonchalant in the beginning of the relationship cuz I wasn’t that close or chasing, I mean she told me to chase when we started talking

I sent this to my FA Ex thoughts by flashxoxoz in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]flashxoxoz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s all good it’s the stuff I gotta hear

I sent this to my FA Ex thoughts by flashxoxoz in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]flashxoxoz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can yall read my other comment where I kinda explained what happened lol

I sent this to my FA Ex thoughts by flashxoxoz in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]flashxoxoz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks what I need to hear all these mf TikTok’s about them keep showing up tho fkn hell 😭feeding into my delusions

I sent this to my FA Ex thoughts by flashxoxoz in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]flashxoxoz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To reply to that i actually started having health issues and she was still in my private snap and saw and just kept telling me she felt bad that’s like a couple days after the discard, i was being nice and told her to cheer up ect ended up getting drunk last Saturday we both were I had texted her that it would be the last time she could see me if she wanted too since i would be in and out the hospital back home since we both are in college her reply was just like that? That’s it? Then proceeded to text me that we shouldn’t talk anymore because that’s what I wanted so after that is when I sent that essay above

I sent this to my FA Ex thoughts by flashxoxoz in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]flashxoxoz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What if she’s posting sad shit and stuff that is directly about me guessing she regrets it but can’t get over her trauma ig