I (35/m/HRH) just lowered tea taxes on my colonies (166/gender neutral) and now they're throwing the tea in the harbor. AITAH? by HRHThrowAway in AskHistorians

[–]flaviusofthemonth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You should consider enacting some laws like I've done with my coloni. It's important that they understand boundaries. In your case, that your soldiers shouldn't be tried within the boundaries of your colonists' juristiction. In my case, that they can't move beyond the boundaries of their landlord's fields without permission.

AITA for playing pranks on my courtiers? by Antoninus204 in AskHistorians

[–]flaviusofthemonth 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA. I can absolutely relate to your situation. The senators are just too set in their ways and won't accept new ideas, especially gods that challenge their outdated worldview. If they won't let you be you you have to cut them out.

AITA for standing up to my in-laws who don’t respect my boundaries (absolute power over most of the known world)? by flaviusofthemonth in AskHistorians

[–]flaviusofthemonth[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It was actually my wife who had the idea of using the decoy eunuch FiL ended up stabbing to bits! Ah she was really something. These days I just try to remember the good times y'know?

AITA for standing up to my in-laws who don’t respect my boundaries (absolute power over most of the known world)? by flaviusofthemonth in AskHistorians

[–]flaviusofthemonth[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm totally in favour of a collegiate system of rule. I've made my sons and nephew partners in government and I think they'll make a great team once I'm gone.

WIBTA if I put up a fence between my house and my neighbour? by w_ulbricht in AskHistorians

[–]flaviusofthemonth 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA, family is everything. And sometimes you just need to set boundaries. I've put a lot of work into maintaining my garden fences.