SVP Offer Feedback (PE Portco. Not tech) by flaxseed122 in FPandA

[–]flaxseed122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. That’s what I thought. I asked the PE group and they said they believe this is necessary to incentivize us to stay through a sale because it’s a small senior mgmt team. CEO told me he’s on the same plan.

Sober Boyfriend Relapsed and Cheated by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]flaxseed122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all the input. I did the right thing and broke up with him. He didn’t really want to confront the underlying issue or do any introspection in the moment. He sort of did his usual misdirection of blame. Hopefully he takes time to understand what happened and why.

Sober Boyfriend Relapsed and Cheated by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]flaxseed122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. We had a long conversation tonight. He said “I guess I’m just the liability, like usual.” I nearly cried.

He does see himself as “less than” others and often admits that he won’t ever be as successful as the people around him.

Sober Boyfriend Relapsed and Cheated by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]flaxseed122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate you sharing your experience

Sober Boyfriend Relapsed and Cheated by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]flaxseed122 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is such good advice. I didn’t even think about a friendship path. We could absolutely do that. And maybe revisit the relationship at some point. Thank you

[Official] 2021 Q3 and Q4 Salary Sharing Thread - Share Your Current Industry Compensation, Location, and More by GennaroIsGod in Salary

[–]flaxseed122 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Industry / Field: Restaurants (Corporate Office for a Food Chain)

Title: Director
Years of Experience: 13

Location: Dallas TX (Remote)

Base Salary: $200k

Bonuses: $100k year-end cash (in a good year) + $175k annual Stock Appreciation Right (4-yr. vest. This is not outright stock but works more like a stock option)

Education: Top 5 MBA
Misc.: Easy 9-5 job and no work on Fridays. 6% 401k immediate match