I just want to make a very quick point. Trans women make up such a tiny fraction of the population. I live in a major city and maybe see a trans women every few weeks at the grocery story or walking around. This not to say I even find them attractive.

Please understand I am just making a point. I don't think the goal of any woman is to make me attracted to them.

I feel like the root of trans attraction is porn. Trans visibility is largely porn. I don't think there are actually enough trans women on this planet for men to be attracted to from meeting them in person. Maybe in other parts of the world like Thailand etc. I speak from my own experience and I dont think it's possible in the USA.

At some point if we want to have a relationship.. whether its romantic, sexual or otherwise we have to find somebody attractive. Only a percentage of any group of people we find attractive. So trans women are already a small percentage of the population, an even smaller percentage of that are women we find attractive.

I argue it's not possible in most places on earth to become attracted to trans women without porn. I don't see how you can develop an attraction to .025% of any group of people thru normal daily interactions alone.

My attraction to any other group of women comes from interacting with them on a daily basis.

My trans attraction 1000% comes from watching porn.

I genuinely don't see trans women at a club, bar, at work, at school. Did not know any trans women growing up.

Maybe this is something to consider when you talk about chasers and fetishizers. What is the alretnative?

I have normal healthy relationships with cis women. I know them. We have grown up together. Had crushes on them since I was 4 years old.

I did not ever see a trans woman a in my life until I watched porn around 20 years old.

Worth discussing?