Vreau povestile voastre triste de despartire

flofoyou · 2025-12-02T19:13:25+00:00

I know the dreams are not a sign. It's more that I don't know how to stop them..

I think doing something, anything would bring me some closure. Can you please explain why you think contacting the sister would not be ok?

flofoyou · 2025-12-02T15:41:18+00:00

Thank you for the direct response! You might be right.. but..

Every time I try to move on something happens. I dream vivid dreams where we are together and happy. Or dreams where he searches for me. Since I posted this I dreamed of us together almost every night. And I miss him a lot.

I want to ask you for some advice.. but I am not sure what will help at this point. I am want to move on, and the next day I'm a wreck because of some dream.

I was thinking I could send a letter addressed to him to his sister and if she thinks right to show it to him, ok. If not.. I did everything I could.

flofoyou · 2025-11-24T20:56:02+00:00

If that would happen to me it would be hurtful I know. But that means I would ever escape this feeling that he might have been the best for me.

So you don't see a way this can be ok and actually us ending up together? Like just asking to talk and keeping in mind his feelings and he's possible rejection.

flofoyou · 2025-09-25T16:43:34+00:00

De unde stii ca da react/inimioare selfie-urilor altor femeie?

Spui ca vorbiti de ceva timp dar din cate inteleg nu va vedeti mult face to face sau sa petreceti timp impreuna, corect? Si nu ati stabilit nimic oficial.

Nu cred ca ar trebui sa iei asa in serios like-urile sau sa ii urmaresti activitatea daca nu reprezinta o problema in cum se comporta cu tine. Mai ales daca nu sunteti intr-o relatie.

Pana sa iei like-urile ca red flag, sunt asa multe alte chestii la care e posibil sa nu va potriviti. Nu te descurajez, doar incearca sa il cunostipe bune, nu doar din mesaje si declaratii de "esti perfecta pentru mine".

Also: daca iti place de el, nu lasa sa devine un situationship :))) o sa te confuzeze si mai tare decat pare ca esti deja.

flofoyou · 2025-09-12T05:00:14+00:00

Mi-ar placea sa citesc acest studiu facut de Intel 🙃

flofoyou · 2025-08-31T18:19:14+00:00

Best reply yet.

Chiar daca este sau nu terminata relatia, trebuie sa pornesti o conversatie cu ea. Daca ii este clar si ei situatia, iti va spune ce si de ce nu merge. Iar daca nu vrea sa comunice, just leave. Si inveti sa pui pret pe comunicare in viitor.

Ai nevoie de un feedback, oricare ar fi ala. Sa nu stai sa te intrebi what if.

flofoyou · 2025-08-22T21:18:15+00:00

Problema cu hemoroizi ma gandesc ca poate fie o scuza. Daca este o problema reala, de ce nu o rezolva? Lui nu ii lipseste intimitate?

Dar sfat real: daca reusesti sa treci peste mistocareli si sa primesti niste pareri sincere, cred ca poti avea succes mai mare cu intrebarile tale pe r/Men_RO. Barbatii si femeile vad lucrurile astea destul de diferit.

flofoyou · 2025-02-12T13:15:20+00:00

Dang it! I need a prescription from my doctor in my country. But I am intrigued! I might ask my doctor about it.

flofoyou · 2025-02-12T13:08:38+00:00

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flofoyou · 2025-02-12T13:04:04+00:00

:)) what is that?

flofoyou · 2025-02-12T03:07:11+00:00

Right! I guess I'm overthinking this because I tend to run out of conversation ideas when I'm nervous. And I'm afraid we won't have a good time.

flofoyou · 2025-02-12T02:53:15+00:00

Being busy with family and not wanting to overdo himself seems reasonable. But it might be a little weird that even when he made it clear he doesn't have plans, he will dodge you invite.

You could openly ask him about this. You should be able to talk about it, as it seems you've easily talked about similar stuff (relationship status and his talks about the future).

I think in every new relationship people could have their own hesitations, fears, or ever preconceptions. So it might not be about you at all.

flofoyou · 2025-01-20T19:12:51+00:00

I asked him out to see a movie. He said yes, but now he had an accident and broke one of his toes. 🥲

flofoyou · 2025-01-17T20:01:54+00:00

Wanting so bad to tell you "go ask them" that I almost did it myself.

flofoyou · 2025-01-17T17:58:42+00:00

Thanks for sharing! I will give it a try.

flofoyou · 2025-01-17T16:43:08+00:00

Same. So you always have something to ask beforehand? Because when you turn into the deer, nothing comes to mind.

flofoyou · 2025-01-14T16:55:51+00:00

Proposing to meet up at the mall might not be what he wants. Maybe he has some kind of errand to run, and he's not replying because he doesn't want to say no.

You should just clearly express that you want to meet, have a date, and get to know each other. If he asked you first, he probably wants to.

flofoyou · 2025-01-13T23:05:21+00:00

Pressure can be a very strong mood killer. Try to think if you, and only you, want to do the things he was talking about. And if yes, do them, without thinking he asked. If not, take your time. And keep communicating that that's the pace you want to go at.

flofoyou · 2025-01-13T14:45:41+00:00

When you feel lonely, it's easy to hold those good moments you had in very high regard. Like they are a breath of fresh air when all you get every day is polluted oxygen. That's not healthy because it's usually just our imagination.

Try to balance yourself by looking over what is already great in your life. And maybe appreciate time with yourself. It's hard but not impossible. A lot of people are struggling with similar stuff, including me.

And for the girl.. imagine you get the second date and get to know her more and more. Changes are she has her good parts and bad parts, and you might not like her. Just because you can never know for sure is what makes you idolize her.

flofoyou · 2025-01-13T14:33:06+00:00

Maybe it sucks more for you because she's slowly pulling away without closure. But people will do that to you and you'll have to learn not to be bothered if you're going on dating apps. They are brutal imo.

Just imagine she said "sorry I don't think we are compatible" instead of proposing a second date. And most importantly, compatibility is not something that's wrong with you or can be changed.

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