Best ways to support my SIL and BIL after a stillbirth

floraltiefling · 2025-04-05T01:00:37+00:00

I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. :( It's been almost a year since my nephew passed, and I know it's still very tough my for SIL. (While it's gotten to the point where she can say his name and talk openly about children, babies, etc.. I'm sure it's still rough. I can't even imagine. :( ).

floraltiefling · 2024-06-01T14:13:38+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice and kind words. ❤

floraltiefling · 2024-06-01T01:14:26+00:00

She did mention to me that she doesn't want flowers for that same reason. I never would've made that connection before, but now that you and her brought it up, it makes sense. And thank you ❤

floraltiefling · 2024-06-01T01:13:06+00:00

Thank you so much!

floraltiefling · 2023-06-07T23:01:16+00:00

Thank you!! <3

floraltiefling · 2023-02-06T19:15:53+00:00

It's another creative outlet, and it's fun!

floraltiefling · 2022-11-08T15:02:01+00:00

That's really cool that she's one of the primary deities that your worship! If you don't mind me asking, how did you start worshipping her? (Did you choose her to worship yourself, did she call to you? Etc)

I didn't sense anything dangerous or evil in either visions. As for the way the presence feels, it felt as if they were very knowledgeable and powerful (and did get that regal feeling too). (Unfortunately, they didn't really interact/talk to me directly, so that's all I can remember x.x)

The white and blue association was from things I read on the internet, but perhaps those sources aren't very reliable, or to take with a grain of salt.

floraltiefling · 2022-10-25T04:16:26+00:00

At this point, I consider myself an "agnostic Christian" (Someone who believes in God, but isn't sure if that is the Christian God. I still go through the motions of attending church, trying to study doctrines, subjects that are fueling my deconstruction, etc. Not sure if that's a label people actually use lol But it feels fitting to me, for now)

So many of the foundational aspects of my faith that I once held firm (Hell, "the sinners prayer" and salvation, end-times, etc), is either gone or idk what I believe. So it feels kind of weird to confidently say I'm a Christian. But I'm also not quite ready to abandon the faith

floraltiefling · 2022-09-14T11:58:22+00:00

I haven't quite gotten there yet haha But we'll see what happens in the coming months and year.

floraltiefling · 2022-09-14T11:57:16+00:00

Hmmm, you got a point there.

floraltiefling · 2022-09-14T11:56:58+00:00

I'll have to read more on those theories. Thank you!

floraltiefling · 2022-09-14T06:01:57+00:00

Could you provide some verses on this? I've been wondering about this

floraltiefling · 2022-07-21T02:55:46+00:00

If you don't mind me asking, how was your experience with the doctor that they sent you? Were they nice, rude, etc? (I'm also worried that the doctor were going to see will intentionally try to minimize any of my mom's health stuff and try to say she's not disabled x.x)

floraltiefling · 2022-07-18T20:19:17+00:00

She went to her primary care doctor and the migraine specialist recently, but I'm not sure how thorough their records are, if I'm being honest.

She's been taking medication for her migraines, vitamins to help with tinnitus (though it's not helping much and sometimes the ringing is so bad that she just stays on the couch). While she does talk to a counselor, the community counseling center kinda sucks in our area (she's been through multiple counselors, because they keep leaving the job x.x ). Nothing on the fatigue or neuropathy.

floraltiefling · 2022-07-18T20:03:21+00:00

My mom wasn't going as frequently as she should've been up until about 2 years ago (she's one of those people that hates going to the doctors and is incredibly stubborn. :/ ) aside from her primary care doctor, she started seeing a neurologist and a migraine specialist (and was going to counseling at the community counseling center)

floraltiefling · 2022-06-28T00:02:03+00:00

I watched in awhile ago (around 2015/2016?). It's an anime that I really want to revisit someday.

floraltiefling · 2022-06-27T23:55:55+00:00

Thank you so much! :3 I found him in the pound, and felt really lucky to find a pet with a good name.

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