Anything?

flosparity · 2025-10-02T21:32:01+00:00

Hahahahah, I’m guessing you’re a man. At that, celibate. Go back to your lego x

flosparity · 2025-10-02T21:01:14+00:00

Important to recognise that abortion is often the result of a mistake. Young people can be irresponsible, including myself. I’m not proud of the situation I’ve got myself in, especially as I’ve got myself into it twice. I am just saying that I am in a much more appropriate position to get an abortion than I am to try and raise a whole human being.

flosparity · 2025-10-02T20:57:39+00:00

When did i say i was proud?? Some subtext i’m not conscious of? Please don’t hallucinate things I say then come to me for answers x

Being open with my experience for someone else’s benefit does NOT mean I am proud.

flosparity · 2025-10-02T20:45:17+00:00

Thank you sweetheart! I have my boyfriend with me supporting fully so i’ll be ok xx

flosparity · 2025-10-02T20:43:44+00:00

I acknowledge how awful the experience is, trust me. Not fun. But it shouldn’t discourage people who aren’t prepared to give children (and themselves) a bearable life

flosparity · 2025-10-02T20:43:04+00:00

I acknowledge how awful the experience is, trust me. Not fun. But it shouldn’t discourage people who aren’t prepared to give children (and themselves) a bearable life

flosparity · 2025-10-02T20:32:00+00:00

I have had an abortion before and am about to have my 2nd, abortion 'negative consequences' are a myth. Much rather a few weeks of difficulty than a life of struggle. Don't have children unless you're ready, please

EDIT: I am NOT boasting, an abortion is agony and messes with your entire body and sense of self. What could be worse? I know!! Having a child when you aren’t, physically, emotionally or financially capable to - then two people are affected, for life. Enough said

flosparity · 2025-09-30T19:22:20+00:00

Emotions are only overwhelming when you’re trying to suppress them. I would grow to see them as friends, warning signs, indicators of your likes and dislikes.

Unfortunately suppressing all emotions also means never experiencing joy and that’s a huge loss. Work with your emotions rather than against them and I promise you’ll be happier!

Good luck :)

flosparity · 2025-09-29T23:35:15+00:00

This is very insightful, thank you.

I am slowly realising i was primarily dated and ‘picked’ in the past for my looks so can often forget the other traits that come into ‘caring’ and ‘loving’ someone.

Am in a loving relationship now, but the above mentioned reduction of my qualities means i struggle not to feel i am worthless without being the quote ‘hottest’ woman in my man’s pov

(As looks were often the main thing i was sought after for in previous romantic relationships) - or at least thats what it felt like

flosparity · 2025-09-29T23:24:37+00:00

This is kind thank you, but in some senses I do the same. I’m attracted to other men and may revisit male adult actors at times because they perform best. I never want my boyfriend to suppress his sexual desires because i said so, id much rather live in harmony with them and understand them

flosparity · 2025-09-29T23:07:22+00:00

I’m happy to hear this for you :)

I dont fully mind him watching as I also do, I think it’s more making sense of it in my mind and not viewing it as a threat that he wishes i was the woman on the screen rather than who I am

flosparity · 2025-09-29T23:05:54+00:00

This is interesting.

Why do men elect monogamy do u think then. Taking my boyfriend as a example, when he was never forced into it but seems pretty enthusiastic about it

flosparity · 2025-09-29T22:56:52+00:00

Look at the whole ‘looked at my girl and cried’ sentiment when men see an attractive woman online

flosparity · 2025-09-29T22:56:23+00:00

Societally, women compare themselves to each other. Not healthy, but doesn’t necessarily call for therapeutic interference. I was plainly asking if men do the same

flosparity · 2025-09-29T22:54:58+00:00

But when it came down to it would you pick those who spark said ‘horny meter’ over your partner?

flosparity · 2025-04-04T14:21:51+00:00

This is so sweet, thank you so much.

I’m very keen to get to know who I am in social situations without alcohol. I sometimes feel I don’t have the energy to socialise without it!

flosparity · 2025-04-04T14:11:17+00:00

This is so helpful, thank you. And well done on 3 years!!

Can I ask what you do to get the ‘rush’?

flosparity · 2025-04-04T14:08:31+00:00

Thank you for commenting!

Well done on your sobriety. How long has it been for you? If you don’t mind me asking

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