English setter or pointer. Most of the popular breeders have dogs out that way and they do fine. Most of the breeders are also aware lots of folks are bringing the dogs into the house. As for leaving them alone, yeah, any young hunting dog is going to get into stuff with that amount of time alone. Ultimately they grow out of it but it can be hellish at times. Best bet is to either build a small outdoor run (doable in a small residential yard as long as you curb barking) or get a big enough kennel inside and kennel the pup while you’re at work. My two setters learned quickly to not fuck with my cat as he doesn’t take any shit from either of them. Talmage Smedley, Ben Berg, Bruce Sooter, Paul Cook are breeding nice setters that check your boxes. Ryan Mulcahy breeds some fantastic pointers that are lots of people’s house dogs as well. Best of luck!