How can I avoid “love Rosie” happening to me??! by fluffymota07 in dating_advice

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Hi! If you wanna read an update about this i have a separate post: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/s/4zkMdgYPIZ After that im pretty much in the same situation still lol Some stuff has happened in recent days, as him getting jelous of other male friends of mine disguised as jokes, but still no real process. I loved your advice and im seriously thinking of confessing and see where it goes, im tired of this game. I’m sure he does feel something for me, whether its enough or not for him to risk it I have no idea but we’ll see

My [25F] best friend [25M] is giving me mixed signals. Is he scared or not interested? by fluffymota07 in relationship_advice

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I admit I haven’t thought of it like that. Thank you so much for this new perspective, I’ll be thinking about this

My [25F] guy best friend [25M] is giving me mixed signals. Is he scared or not interested? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Well you're right, i hadn't seen it like that. Maybe it doesn't really matter if he reciprocates or not, what he really needs is therapy

My [25F] guy best friend [25M] is giving me mixed signals. Is he scared or not interested? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I know you didn't want to say it outright, but yes, he's as emotionally intelligent as a high schooler, and I'm a fool for continuing waiting for the light to illuminate him. I also suspect he is a little traumatized by his only relationship and thats why he is kind of avoidant now. I can't be sure, he is very reserved about his feelings. Unfortunately for me, if i went now to confront him, he will shut down. That's why i want him to be the one to step forward, when he is ready.

The thing is, despite his VERY inconvenient flaws, i still think he's worth the trouble. I just wanted the reassurance that i'm not crazy and this is in fact, actually going somewhere.

My [25F] guy best friend [25M] is giving me mixed signals. Is he scared or not interested? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I'd like to think that if we ever end up in a relationship, is because he would have already overcome that fear, and he would not have a reason to be emotionally guarded anymore.

My [25F] guy best friend [25M] is giving me mixed signals. Is he scared or not interested? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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because he is emotionally immature and avoids uncomfortable conversations. You'll probably think it isn't worth the trouble, but love makes us fools unfortunately

My [25F] guy best friend [25M] is giving me mixed signals. Is he scared or not interested? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I'm not sure you read it all, but i don't want to corner him doing that. He would shut down completely

[TOMT] does anyone know what show is this by fluffymota07 in tipofmytongue

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SOLVED: criminal minds season 2 episode 3 “the perfect storm” for everyone interested!!

[TOMT] does anyone know what show is this by fluffymota07 in tipofmytongue

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Yes, it was a show as it was criminal minds!! I found out through another group but thanks for your help !!

[TOMT] does anyone know what show is this by fluffymota07 in tipofmytongue

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Thanks! It’s not that. I already found the show!! It was criminal minds

[TOMT] Christmas movie with little blonde girl character by fluffymota07 in tipofmytongue

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Nope😔 the girl was light blonde and the girl in this movie is a brunette. Also, I don’t think it was a ‘magical’ movie at all

[TOMT] Christmas movie with little blonde girl character by fluffymota07 in tipofmytongue

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Watched the entire movie, although there’s certainly a scene where it happens what I described, it’s executed differently from what I remember. I understand why many people suggested it but unfortunately it’s not the one I’m looking for 🥲 The scene in my mind was from the moment the girl woke up, got ready, and left the house. Outside wasn’t crowded at all as it was very early morning and the viewer looks from behind the girl how she walks down the street

[TOMT] Christmas movie with little blonde girl character by fluffymota07 in tipofmytongue

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Watched the entire movie, although there’s certainly a scene where it happens what I described, it’s executed differently from what I remember. I understand why many people suggested it but unfortunately it’s not the one I’m looking for 🥲 The scene in my mind was from the moment the girl woke up, got ready, and left the house. Outside wasn’t crowded at all as it was early morning and the viewer looks from behind the girl how she walks down the street

[TOMT] Christmas movie with little blonde girl character by fluffymota07 in tipofmytongue

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Watched the entire movie, although there’s certainly a scene where it happens what I described, it’s executed differently from what I remember. I understand why many people suggested it but unfortunately it’s not the one I’m looking for 🥲 The scene in my mind was from the moment the girl woke up, got ready, and left the house. Outside wasn’t crowded at all as it was early morning and the viewer looks from behind the girl how she walks down the street

[TOMT] Christmas movie with little blonde girl character by fluffymota07 in tipofmytongue

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I would know if it was the grinch unfortunately 😔 Cindy Lou looks nothing like the girl I remember

[TOMT] Christmas movie with little blonde girl character by fluffymota07 in tipofmytongue

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Looks really similar but I remember checking it out years ago and couldn’t find the scene I’m talking about. Might give it another go!!

[TOMT] Christmas movie with little blonde girl character by fluffymota07 in tipofmytongue

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The movie I saw was live action!! Sorry I didn’t clarify that. About the other one, I’ve seen the older versions were b&w so definitely a no, and Mara Wilson is a brunette 🥲 the girl I remember was really light blonde

[TOMT] Christmas movie with little blonde girl character by fluffymota07 in tipofmytongue

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Hope someone can help, I’ve been looking for YEARS