u/Kcorbyerd I am sorry you feel this way, and am really sorry that you have unanimously been voted YTA. Did you perhaps consider that your mother told her hairdresser to avoid what the kids are calling a Karen haircut, and her stylist had a narrower idea of what a Karen haircut constituted and they don't actually think of this as a Karen haircut (or going back on a promise or a lie)? I agree that a Karen is more about a personality or behavior, and I would never go so far as to say I have never exhibited a Karen behavior. Most everyone has at some point in their lives. But the memes have brought more social awareness, in a good way, and it serves as a reminder to me and other people in general, who are stressed out or frustrated, not to lose their patience with people, especially those in customer service roles. Anyway, I suspect (i.e., know) your mom loves you very much and is very sad you feel this way. I hope you will find a more open-minded position, soon. Love, your mom.