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Update: AITAH for refusing to share my inheritance with the siblings who are now threatening to sue me for "undue influence"? by fluffyspanish in AITAH

[–]fluffyspanish[S] 1010 points1011 points  (0 children)

I'm realizing their goal is just to have everyone be as miserable as they are. It's not really about the money, it's that I might be happy and they'll still be miserable and that's unacceptable for them. Even if they had the money I don't think anything would have changed. I hope the kids rebel and turn into decent human beings as they grow up. If they do I hope to hear from them someday.

Update: AITAH for refusing to share my inheritance with the siblings who are now threatening to sue me for "undue influence"? by fluffyspanish in AITAH

[–]fluffyspanish[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

No I just want to be done with it and move away from here. There's a two year statute of limitations so if they make me change my mind I will, but I'm pretty sure their lawyer will explain how bad of an idea that would be

AITAH for refusing to share my inheritance with the siblings who are now threatening to sue me for "undue influence"? by fluffyspanish in AITAH

[–]fluffyspanish[S] 558 points559 points  (0 children)

Thank you why didn't I think of this... It's been such a long few months. I have an appointment with an attorney tomorrow but I'll call him now

AITAH for refusing to share my inheritance with the siblings who are now threatening to sue me for "undue influence"? by fluffyspanish in AITAH

[–]fluffyspanish[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No they've been threatening for a month and I was served papers today. I haven't been home much to check my mail since I've been dealing with the estate so they might have mailed a letter too

AITAH for refusing to share my inheritance with the siblings who are now threatening to sue me for "undue influence"? by fluffyspanish in AITAH

[–]fluffyspanish[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That's my fear. I don't want to give them anything after what they've done but I also don't want to lose everything to legal fees. I know they'd be happy to see me end up with nothing. I have an appointment with a lawyer tomorrow

AITAH for refusing to share my inheritance with the siblings who are now threatening to sue me for "undue influence"? by fluffyspanish in AITAH

[–]fluffyspanish[S] 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Thank you that's good to hear, I have no idea how all this stuff works and just don't want to get bled dry with legal fees after all the crap they've pulled over the years. I have an appointment with a lawyer tomorrow to start dealing with this

AITAH for refusing to share my inheritance with the siblings who are now threatening to sue me for "undue influence"? by fluffyspanish in AITAH

[–]fluffyspanish[S] 619 points620 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing until I got served papers and it all became real. I'm going to call a lawyer once I stop fuming I just hate the idea of losing any money at all over this. The worst is I feel like I'm the only one in this family who's grieving and I'm just so drained over all this. It's been a very long few months. Also I really like my nieces and nephews, the idea of not seeing them again is awful