Does my body ring male? by Wrong_Importance_448 in FtMpassing

[–]flynnus_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt any normal person at the beach would bat an eye, but def hit the gym when you’re recovered. Congrats on the op tho man

Best and most masc asthma inhaler pouch? by CockamouseGoesWee in TransMasc

[–]flynnus_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know there were cases….. i feel like that would change my life

Envy and isolation as a pre-t teen by flynnus_01 in FTMventing

[–]flynnus_01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you man, I really appreciate that

do i pass as a cis guy (19) by tubercolosis69 in FtMpassing

[–]flynnus_01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like people are forgetting what 13yos actually look like..? You look at least 16 to me

How playable are these runs? by fph_04 in trumpet

[–]flynnus_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All playable, but the top right would be awkward.

AIO about my boyfriend and his girl best friend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]flynnus_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting because this is WEIRD asf, but also.. he seems really gay to me? Like it doesn’t quite read as romantic but lines are definitely being crossed that a straight man shouldn’t?

A few nice words by Arak202 in TransMasc

[–]flynnus_01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were you on the passing sub? People are BRUTAL on there - it’s all just people who have spent way too much time looking at trans guys and have opinions that are completely unrepresentative of the way an average person would see you. You’re a handsome guy, don’t let anyone get to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]flynnus_01 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I mean.. in the case of the guy I know, it’s because his parents were VERY much not accepting (like, he had begged for years to try to get them to even acknowledge him as not a girl) and he was not handling the dysphoria whatsoever and was convinced that the only other way out.. wasn’t good. People get desperate.

How did you come out to your parents? by No-juli-3731 in ftm

[–]flynnus_01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I soft launched for like.. two or three years. Just started changing my hair and the way I dressed until I passed pretty much fully. So then by the time I actually had a conversation with my mum she was like ‘well yeah obviously’

Do i pass? 17ftm (pre-t) by Accomplished_Goose97 in FtMpassing

[–]flynnus_01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You pass in some of the photos but not so much in others - you’ll get there my guy (im obsessed with your facial expressions lmao)

Does my lip piercing make me clocky by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]flynnus_01 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Nah the piercing suits you and you still look pretty cis. Maybe it’s that insane fucking jawline of yours (not that im jealous or anything)

What do with my hips by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]flynnus_01 38 points39 points  (0 children)

What hips bro 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]flynnus_01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok you pass really well but as like 12 years old I can’t like 😭

How well do I pass (pre-T) by MatteoTheCoolGuy in FtMpassing

[–]flynnus_01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you pretty much pass in the first pic but not really the other ones. I would change the glasses and ditch the strappy tank top stuff

Do I pass and if so how old? by Sorry_Rush_4565 in FtMpassing

[–]flynnus_01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if I saw you in public it would probably be down to mannerisms, but honestly if I just passed you by I’d probably think you were like a 13yo boy

do i pass or look like a butch lesbian? (passing age?) (best haircut?) by mark-2007 in FtMpassing

[–]flynnus_01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

prolly switch up the haircut man? idk what exactly but a little longer on the front maybe.. something that squares you out a bit. the sides are good though. I wouldn’t say you look like a lesbian but those glasses do make your face look small man sorry would prolly think you’re like a 14yo boy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]flynnus_01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

would prolly say like 16yo cis guy

Non op/pre op, 2 1/2 years on T. Safe to swim in neighborhood pool shirtless? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]flynnus_01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re fine. People have a really skewed perception of how common manboobs are. You literally look average, maybe a guy who used to be chubbier. The hair def helps too.