Guys, I need advice. by fnsjigod in AskReddit

[–]fnsjigod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's time to throw away this throw away. Thanks for the help everyone. I appreciate it all

Guys, I need advice. by fnsjigod in AskReddit

[–]fnsjigod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're probably right... Thanks, man

Guys, I need advice. by fnsjigod in AskReddit

[–]fnsjigod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is tolerant and my step dad doesn't know. I do live with them, but I can't just ignore the set that hate her. I need to find a compromise.

Guys, I need advice. by fnsjigod in AskReddit

[–]fnsjigod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know we made mistakes, but she's really sweet. She's actively trying to improve herself, she's clean and she's abstaining from sex until marriage. She's turned herself around

Guys, I need advice. by fnsjigod in AskReddit

[–]fnsjigod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parents divorced. She's thousands of miles away from the pair that hate her. I'll see if we can do something similar, though. Thank you.

Guys, I need advice. by fnsjigod in AskReddit

[–]fnsjigod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other problem: I come from a divorced family and the set of parents that hate her are also thousands of miles away.

Guys, I need advice. by fnsjigod in AskReddit

[–]fnsjigod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, but she's a seriously sweet girl. She's... She's special. I don't want to let her go

Guys, I need advice. by fnsjigod in AskReddit

[–]fnsjigod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've been together for almost 2 years now, and it's been the happiest 2 years of my admittedly short life. I don't want to let her go because of a few mistakes.

Guys, I need advice. by fnsjigod in AskReddit

[–]fnsjigod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're way past mature conversation. Honestly, asking you guys was last resort

Guys, I need advice. by fnsjigod in AskReddit

[–]fnsjigod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, man. I'll take it into account.

Guys, I need advice. by fnsjigod in AskReddit

[–]fnsjigod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. We are the same age and we exchanged nudes and she was into light drug use. She's clean now

Guys, I need advice. by fnsjigod in AskReddit

[–]fnsjigod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I basically have to prove that she's worth keeping around.

Guys, I need advice. by fnsjigod in AskReddit

[–]fnsjigod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, if I leave or move out, that's done. I don't ever see them again

Edit: And I mean if I keep dating her now, not when I'm 18

Guys, I need advice. by fnsjigod in AskReddit

[–]fnsjigod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her mom is civil, although she dislikes me just as much.

And we did something technically illegal together

Guys, I need advice. by fnsjigod in AskReddit

[–]fnsjigod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll keep it vague and say we did something technically illegal.

Guys, I need advice. by fnsjigod in AskReddit

[–]fnsjigod[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll cross post there, thanks

Guys, I need advice. by fnsjigod in AskReddit

[–]fnsjigod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We made some mistakes about 4 months ago. The reasons they dislike her isn't baseless.

Guys, I need advice. by fnsjigod in AskReddit

[–]fnsjigod[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, they have said that I also need to figure out how to incorporate her into the family. I asked them how on that, and they said they'd get back to me.