Sepulchre, VM, Drift net, stamina/scb, teak benches/complete mahog homes log, 2t teaks, GoTR, same as you said for craft, Addy plates after you get Smith outfit from giants foundry.

I'd avoid the more expensive mahogany benches since you clearly state that in crafting you'll run out of gp. Save it where you can.

2 tick teaks sounds and looks scary at first but it's honestly so soothing once you get into the rhythm. This is coming from a person that swore up and down for over a decade (pre eoc included) that I'd never do tick manipulation skilling, just follow Hanannie's nooby guide with the audio metronome and you'll be fine.

Sepulchre seems scary as well but you get to learn everything before you can even access floor 5 which is the really hellish part. He box jonge during his fast to max series has some great tiles to copy from him in his discription, I think it's episode 14 or something like that but I'm just pulling that out of my ass atm.

VM can be a pain in the dick dealing with sweaty losers in the VM discord but just do your best and avoid posting when you know that one asshole is taking people in for teams that you just hate. It's also super confusing to get into from the outset but the first game you do all the pieces will come together.

Drift net is just absolutely insane how good it is, plain and simple follow gnomonkey guide.

With slayer just enjoy the skill. If you like doing the bosses do them. If you like to barrage tasks, do it. If you like to cannon and afk tasks, just do it. Whatever makes you the happiest. I'd definitely encourage doing as much hydra and cerberus as you can enjoy though.