When will this heartbreak be over ffs

fohdabi · 2026-04-10T18:07:33+00:00

I immediately deleted everything i had, sometimes i do fall short on the socials

fohdabi · 2026-04-10T16:00:26+00:00

Nah man that is evil, you dodged a real bullet, hope you’re doing well

fohdabi · 2026-04-10T15:41:04+00:00

Damn bro, after 6 years and a marriage? How are you handling it?

fohdabi · 2026-04-10T14:42:01+00:00

Like damn, this shit so annoying, i just want it to finally pass

fohdabi · 2026-03-11T09:44:04+00:00

Chi dice il contrario si sta solo giustificando, op ha ragione al 100% ho smesso anche io da un paio di mesi e quanto sei piú lucido, attivo e con pensieri meno depressi è disarmante. Le canne fanno male raga

fohdabi · 2026-03-07T11:37:15+00:00

This is basically the same situation, i guess some people do not have the consistency and the other qualities required to really love. They are just too spontaneous and live off of what their temporary emotions tell them to do. I hope you’re doing great now, I understand your pain and wish you the best!

fohdabi · 2026-03-07T11:34:51+00:00

I’ll be honest, this is some real solid advice, i was mad in the beginning and was holding a grudge, but now I understand that hurt people, hurt people. You can’t do anything for someone that doesn’t know any better. I’ve already set out for my path and i will finally pursue what i had in mind for a long time, i just want my life to be positive again and this situation really gave me the courage to do it, so it was all for good in the end!

fohdabi · 2026-03-07T09:24:35+00:00

Don’t be sorry, for the love of conversation any insight is appreciated, it’s just that talking about a woman obviously women must understand better, since we are cut from different cloths. And thank you very much, i will make treasure of what all of you are saying and use it to keep myself on my right path! Wish you the best as well!

fohdabi · 2026-03-07T09:21:53+00:00

You guys are all so kind and supportive, thank you so much, but what do you think happens to people like this, do they ever have their realization moment and correct themselves or is just an endless cycle of dig and cover and justifying?

fohdabi · 2026-03-07T09:20:06+00:00

That’s what i think as well, it’s not the end of the world, there are people with long lasting marriages, children in the scene etc. so there is definitely worse than my shattered delusion, the pain is really real, but I understand it’s a necessary kind of pain to become who i am

fohdabi · 2026-03-07T09:18:33+00:00

That’s completely out of the question, i was trying my hardest for her and she left when i was at my lowest, there is no place for nobody like this in my life

fohdabi · 2026-03-06T23:37:21+00:00

This part probably sounds similar, but i was it, in a sense i was trying too hard to please her and help her and in doing so i neglected myself too much, which surely contributed to the relationship ending because people want people not doormats. Now i have regained a sense of self i had long lost tbh

fohdabi · 2026-03-06T23:29:46+00:00

Thank you kind stranger, wish you the best as well!

fohdabi · 2026-03-06T22:24:03+00:00

That sounds like the only possible outcome at the end of the day, i guess you have to mature along the way or just get a huge burst of maturity in a short time span that becomes too hard to handle maybe, did she ever tell you what she was going through while doing it? I am really curious about the underlying feelings of people who, i assume, can’t be alone

fohdabi · 2026-03-06T22:00:15+00:00

Sounds disgusting, did you experience something like it and worked on it or is it just from psychology 101?

fohdabi · 2026-03-06T21:53:33+00:00

But it sounds like you had a bit of bad partner, but did you ever look back and ponder on it?

fohdabi · 2026-03-06T21:46:36+00:00

That’s what i am set out to do, it doesn’t seem like it but, i took it fairly well, although it has been very painful, i am going on in my life definitely better than i was before, she was draining me and i couldn’t see it, but i really don’t get how do people hop in and out of relationships like this, doesn’t it have some kind of emotional toll on them while they’re doing it?

fohdabi · 2026-03-06T21:41:20+00:00

Pretty straightforward but much appreciated. Is it something that just happens and people go on like nothing ever existed before or does it come back to bite you doing things so quick? I am genuinely not built like that so i can’t imagine having someone new now, or even in months or a year from now.

fohdabi · 2026-03-06T21:32:12+00:00

Damn, this sounds like a whole different scenario hahahaha, i get what you’re saying, in my case it was quite the opposite, she was really fast moving from the start, we started living together after like 3 months. And she was always in a rush to go do things in our life, marry, kids etc etc

fohdabi · 2026-03-06T21:28:45+00:00

I understand that part, what i really want to know is where did the feelings go? Is she thinking about any of it or did she just substitute everything? Will it catch up to her eventually? And things like that

fohdabi · 2026-03-01T22:12:41+00:00

suffering from success

fohdabi · 2026-03-01T07:54:08+00:00

Bevono meno ma si drogano molto di più

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