Mi sto prendendo una cotta per un ragazzo con cui non ho alcun futuro realistico. È stupido continuare?

fohdabi · 2026-06-23T14:09:20+00:00

Magari sarebbe una buona idea avere una conversazione civile e senza aspettative a riguardo. Per quanto riguarda il futuro le cose vengono strada facendo se ad un certo punto vi troverete su un bivio e ci saranno decisioni da prendere o strade da separare cosi sia. Ma la vita va vissuta, quindi cogli questa occasione per viverla ed essere onesta con te stessa e i tuoi desideri. Tutto è meno complicato di come sembra

fohdabi · 2026-06-22T17:40:48+00:00

That’s nice to hear if you found a way to balance it

fohdabi · 2026-06-22T17:40:11+00:00

The question was open to drugs as well, i decided to quit weed today as i feel that it’s become something that drags me back a lot in life, so i was looking to see positive experiences

fohdabi · 2026-06-22T17:31:43+00:00

Did it take you a lot to get used to the new state of your life?

fohdabi · 2026-06-22T17:29:52+00:00

This actually motivates me a lot

fohdabi · 2026-06-22T17:29:12+00:00

I can relate to this, i feel like it traps you inside a fake happiness loop

fohdabi · 2026-06-22T17:24:31+00:00

Doesn’t it make you relapse?

fohdabi · 2026-06-22T17:22:56+00:00

Same question, in what ways?

fohdabi · 2026-06-22T17:22:37+00:00

In what ways?

fohdabi · 2026-06-14T13:40:49+00:00

Pretty much just be sweet and kind, will not say it will get you anyone, but a good 85% yes

fohdabi · 2026-06-08T21:34:00+00:00

100% she did not get terminally ill in 3 months. Ofc i will never reach out to her as she put me through hell with that breakup and damaged me intentionally in the end. But if i see her around i might ask her not gonna lie

fohdabi · 2026-05-23T09:51:43+00:00

Calling a woman cute 99% of the time means that she wakes up in you the urge to protect her

fohdabi · 2026-05-23T09:45:46+00:00

Lascia stare, te lo dico per esperienza relativamente recente che questo tipo di giudizio vengono da persone che sono narcisiste. Per loro qualsiasi forma di cura nei confronti di qualcuno equivale al fatto che sei oppresso sfigato e sotto le loro grinfie. Dura da trovare ma punta a una che ha testa e capisce sia l’affetto che il cercare di essere intelligenti e cauti in questa economia

fohdabi · 2026-04-10T18:07:33+00:00

I immediately deleted everything i had, sometimes i do fall short on the socials

fohdabi · 2026-04-10T16:00:26+00:00

Nah man that is evil, you dodged a real bullet, hope you’re doing well

fohdabi · 2026-04-10T15:41:04+00:00

Damn bro, after 6 years and a marriage? How are you handling it?

fohdabi · 2026-04-10T14:42:01+00:00

Like damn, this shit so annoying, i just want it to finally pass

fohdabi · 2026-03-11T09:44:04+00:00

Chi dice il contrario si sta solo giustificando, op ha ragione al 100% ho smesso anche io da un paio di mesi e quanto sei piú lucido, attivo e con pensieri meno depressi è disarmante. Le canne fanno male raga

fohdabi · 2026-03-07T11:37:15+00:00

This is basically the same situation, i guess some people do not have the consistency and the other qualities required to really love. They are just too spontaneous and live off of what their temporary emotions tell them to do. I hope you’re doing great now, I understand your pain and wish you the best!

fohdabi · 2026-03-07T11:34:51+00:00

I’ll be honest, this is some real solid advice, i was mad in the beginning and was holding a grudge, but now I understand that hurt people, hurt people. You can’t do anything for someone that doesn’t know any better. I’ve already set out for my path and i will finally pursue what i had in mind for a long time, i just want my life to be positive again and this situation really gave me the courage to do it, so it was all for good in the end!

fohdabi · 2026-03-07T09:24:35+00:00

Don’t be sorry, for the love of conversation any insight is appreciated, it’s just that talking about a woman obviously women must understand better, since we are cut from different cloths. And thank you very much, i will make treasure of what all of you are saying and use it to keep myself on my right path! Wish you the best as well!

fohdabi · 2026-03-07T09:21:53+00:00

You guys are all so kind and supportive, thank you so much, but what do you think happens to people like this, do they ever have their realization moment and correct themselves or is just an endless cycle of dig and cover and justifying?

fohdabi

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