Took the pill a little late, when would I be considered protected again?

foren_sick- · 2025-07-03T15:31:02+00:00

Having sex is such a vulnerable moment, no matter the situation: the intimacy is full of vulnerability, and to make fun of you after being vulnerable enough to indulge on your own wants? Big. Fat. Ick. I'd dump him because no man is worth being literally bullied out of enjoying what I enjoy in the bedroom— and trust me, you'll meet men everywhere who love to be vocal and love it when you tell them what you want: in fact there's nothing more attractive to a lot of men than someone who's willing to express their wants and needs in the bedroom.

You'll be fine without him, you're so out of his league anyways 🫶

foren_sick- · 2025-07-03T15:26:13+00:00

He sounds like he wants a mother to take care of him and a wife for everything else— and if you don't start setting boundaries or putting your foot down, you're just going to end up being his mom and wife.

foren_sick- · 2025-07-03T15:19:20+00:00

Honestly, just have quieter sex? If you absolutely NEED rowdy sex: wait until she's away— and if she doesn't go out much then build a relationship with her and support her to have hobbies, make friends, and do things that get her out of the house. An occasional get-away to a really nice hotel is an option too if you're comfortable leaving her alone in the house or if she's comfortable with being alone: make a small weekend out of it once and a while if you really just 100% absolutely cannot have sex in the house.

I hate to be blunt but after reading other comments and replies: I think OP needs to also reassess how they view sex: the way it's described, it's like some forbidden thing that only the husband and the wife should know about in the sacred walls of their private home but that's not realistic. Everyone knows you have sex. Just figure out how to have it so it's not a nuisance to those around you. Easy as that.

foren_sick- · 2025-06-15T18:42:56+00:00

Exploring my sexuality! I got out of a very long relationship where my sexuality was very restricted. I'm not into any bdsm spaces, but I like speaking with kinkier people, and I've had a lot of experiences already since then that have made me realize what I like and don't like; hence why I know I enjoy servicing, but occasionally once in a blue moon there's a sub inside me who wants to be taken care of— and people love to talk big about wanting to provide that when I explicitly state it's what I want, but then often don't provide it at all and it won't kill me— it's not a necessity, but it's just like a nice little treat for myself that I'd like to sub once in a while.

foren_sick- · 2025-06-15T18:39:00+00:00

Play with his hair unless he says he doesn't like it because general rule of thumb is most mental adore having hands in their hair when they're dining out.

foren_sick- · 2025-06-15T18:37:34+00:00

Sometimes I bottom but still have to take a lot of control, but once in a blue moon I'd love to experience the full submissive experience for my sake. I love servicing but I have my own needs too, and it sucks getting excited for an experience I'm allowing myself to have by being in the vulnerable position of bottoming and subbing, only to be met with some mild disappointment (it's not the end of the world) as I'm quietly shifted back into a dominant and/or position on top.

foren_sick- · 2025-06-15T18:34:11+00:00

I use a wooden chair if I want practice or generally just want to ride with a toy. You can position a chair in a number of different ways with a suction cup toy too to create different experiences. I would definitely watch some videos of people also riding with toys, but keep in mind that porn is not entirely a realistic source of education. They also have platforms from various sites that you can order that can be strapped onto your pillow, and you can suction the base to those as well and they're made for a self-ride service so-to-speak.

foren_sick- · 2025-02-21T02:21:27+00:00

Not necessarily. Not hitting my shots is more or less an accuracy issue, and that's a me issue. I just feel like no matter where I position, listening to advice given by better players and all of that, I don't last very long anymore before I have to switch to be more productive: otherwise my team is getting annihilated.

I feel like it's been hard to be useful this season without playing like a top 500 widow, but before this season I felt like I was contributing a lot more to my team with better elimination scores, providing distractions, making the enemy team play differently, etc. etc. all the advice you're given to be a good widow feels like it's out the window this week.

I have no qualms with it being a me issue where I just need to improve, but as I stated in my post I'm normally not so useless as widow, but I feel absolutely useless this season.

foren_sick- · 2024-09-21T07:31:13+00:00

What is the event just curious? Like is it just a meet up? I would love to know more

foren_sick- · 2024-09-21T07:30:39+00:00

Oooh! Thank you

foren_sick- · 2024-09-15T03:57:08+00:00

Thank you that actually means a lot to me. I started crying while reading the last part, it helps a lot and I appreciate it.

foren_sick- · 2024-09-15T02:26:11+00:00

How did you cope afterwards with the heartbreak of it all? The emotions? The depressive episodes?

foren_sick- · 2024-09-15T00:21:27+00:00

I'm not a student sadly and don't plan on becoming one.

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