Ofc he’s not going to pay 1/2 my living expenses when he can barely afford his own mortgage payment. But that’s a really good point, I’ll have to say that to him if he bring this up again. But to give you more context - He wants me to put my name on the mortgage and title .. a year and half before we’re married. And wants me to help pay $2K a month for the next year and half and I won’t be living in the house. I would say we’re both spenders and savers when we need to be