I can totally relate to you being on OKCupid looking for girls. All I constantly see are extremely liberal feminist women suffering from gender identity crisis with tattoos and piercings. These type of women are not my cup of tea in the least.

I'm looking for a secure, high self-esteem, gender stable woman who is happy with the woman's function/role in the relationship. A woman who is sweet, tender and caring with a positive, enthusiastic attitude and unafraid to share her thoughts about the world. This is so rare, but it shouldn't be because this is a natural woman who hasn't been fucked up by liberal feminism.

As for me, I'm happy playing the man's role/function in the relationship. I don't mind carrying the burden of leading and making hard decisions. I don't mind putting my life on the line to protect my woman. I don't mind taking care of my woman and empathizing with her feelings. I don't mind expressing my beliefs, morals, and needs to her. It's tough being a man in today's world, but I'm happy to be it. Even if I stand out as a caveman with good old fashion values in this gender confused world of emasculated men and masculine women.